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whats my problem , guilt

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Today was day two of 4 watching my boyfriends two girls for 4 to 5 hours. He is working overnights. It has not gone to bad so far. 12yro is sick and stayed home from school for second day. We had a good day. one at a time they are usually ok to deal with. Had a bit of trouble with 7yro. She came home from school, had homework. She gets so pissed when i check over her home work and find math problems wrong and she has to correct them but, we got it done.

homework, bed time,HELP!!!

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Well my BF's 7yr old has math homework again. Last week her teacher was out and they had subs and no homework. Last week was great. Now back to her taking an hour to do 3 problems. She has had a snack which is fine. If she went to her grandmas after school it would be done. When i pick her and her 12yr old sis up from grandmas at 430 after work a couple times a week her homework is done. She goes there has snack then pulls papers out and gets it done. WTH is the problem here? Today she brought a paper home for after school activity thur.

Thanks for the comments

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Thanks everyone I Love my BF alot. fought a little over the phone while texting. Im not good at venting aloud to often. I usually let it build to a boiling point, not good i know. for two days i didnt talk to him much at all wouldnt make eye contact after the let down of the pre approval. when he got home we talked a bit, i feel better know. Told him we need a set time everyday that they pick up their things around the livingroom and kitchen. They share a room thats the hardest part. They each have own dirty clothes basket and I have BF do the girls laundry and his work uniforms.

wondering mind

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well its been one year living with bf and his 7yrold girl and 12yr old gil. lately im not to happy. I cleaned house on my day off. dust, vaccum,clean bathrooms scrub sinks toilets sweep mop. I had all done by 930am after i got girls off to school. bf worked 5am to 2pm monday threw fru this week. later in day i go up stairs trash on the bathroom floor behind trash can at side, girls cleaned up room a bit. next day 12 year old has friend over so three girls at kichen table stuff that was in chair 7yr old stuff thrown on floor.