So it's been a minute since I've been in here. Little insight; my DH has full custody of his 2 kids, BM is a major alcoholic,pill popper, cheat, liar, etc... They've been divorced for 6yrs. Ok so in the decree the judge ordered split financial responsibility when it comes to any medical related matters. She doesn't have to pay child support because DH didn't push that issue so long as her name was removed from the house deed, she lives with her elderly mother and now has a now 1yr old lil girl on top of the 19.5 yr old BS and a 16 yr old BD.
When does the shitty & completely rude attitude end with skids? Specifically the 14yr SD. Damn she is a RUDE little bitch! It just never ends long enough to enjoy or relax. I tried consistently for 2.5yrs but the past year I just stopped doing things or lending a helping hand or trying to teach her the basics of life, since her pc of crap, drunk, screwed up mother never has & never will and just can't. (DH has full custody and BM only has the wknds to see her 2 kids).So for the most part I just don't pay attention to her until I have had enough and then I put her in her place.
My DH kids are 14yr and 17yr now. Him and the ex have been divorced since early 2007. He has full custody, she can have them Sat-Sun, but it doesnt always happen, and the 17yr never or rarely see her. She doesnt help them with much of anything. She sends the 17yr a $100 toward his ins., $40 toward texting and $30 for ortho because she has to. I have been trying to get 14yr SD to ask her mom to help with sending her $ to save for a car, for the past yr & a half now. My DH wont talk to her and the SD is too chcicken until recently in Feb.
Well the 2 asshole skids are @ the on/off switch again! One's good while the other is a complete insensitive, rude & disrespectiful asshole. Well me & the 17yr SS just started talking a little bit to ea. other in the past 1.5weeks & wouldn't you know it now the little 14yr bitch of a SD started her shitty ass tude! It started last thursday when she came home from visiting from her pregnant moms for just a couple hrs. Came home with a big bad snotty ass tude. And me & her have been getting along pretty good for the last month or so.
This childs mentality and mouth are complete out of control! Its been a little while since I have been on here but I have had almost the same issue with this kid but it just isnt getting any better. Within the last 2weeks we mainly dad asked him to clean his bathroom.
Ok so my 14SD has a very bad habit of slamming doors amongst her famous words such as, "I know, I will and I can't". All of which she has uttered today.
I know you have to pick and choose your battles, but what do you say or how do you react to their constant BS. Like their back talking, attitude, expectations, disrespect, my biggest one is when they do not do their daily chores or they are done 1/4 ass, etc.... (They are 17yr SS and 14yr SD)
Okay I have this 17yr SS who is extremely lazy, disgusting, filthy, rude and has one of the worst mouths I have ever heard on ANY human being! This freaking kids thinks that we should be catering to his every whim but specifically his POOR eating habits. He is always bitching and complaining that there is nothing to eat in the house & bitches to 'daddy' that "I" never buy anything good to eat.
My 17yr SS has been warned a few times about his texting habit, but daddy keeps barking a threat with no actual follow through. 2 billing cycles ago the damn kid had 10,208 text messages. Let me tell you something I do not care if you have unlimited text messaging there is no reason for that absurd, ridiculous amount! Are you texting 1 fricken letter/number at a time? Any who, it wasn't just the amount, but it was the fact it occurred during school, from start to finish! One after the other, minute for minute and in some 2-3 in a minute. WHAT THE HELL!
Well to start off just so you have some insight as to what challenges we started off with. My boyfriend/fiance whom I have lived with for the past 3 years now has 2 step kids, 14yr girl and a 17yr old boy, an ex wife which he divorced 4 yrs ago and was married nearly 15yrs to. The ex had been an alcoholic and a prescription pill popper for the last 8 years of their marriage, progressing every day till their last day together. The last episode was right before Thanksgiving and Xmas. She was highly intoxicated and on some pills.