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Hi everybody, I am new.
I'm not really a step mom and given whatever is happening now, I do not see myself becoming one.
I was hopping to come here and get some advice, and most importantly, express my fustration towards my boyfriends' two children. hoping it'd get the air off me so I couldn't have to screen and storm out of the house.
My husband and I met through our daughters. They were best friends. But 2 yrs later they can't stand each other.
So this is dh weekend to have ss. Tues, dh was talking to ss and reminded him that he's picking him up this weekend. Ss was surprised like he didn't know and sounded like he already had plans for this weekend. Weds, dh missed a call from bm but she didn't leave a msg so he didn't think it was necessary to call back. Thursday, dh receives an email from bm. She said she didn't realize it was dh's weekend and planned on taking ss to a birthday party that happens to be in our town. She asked if dh would let her pick up ss for a 'few hours' on Sat but if not then it was ok.
Husband calls his daughter last night and of course no one answers..so he calls cell phone and it rings and rings and finally BM picks up and hangs up..this goes on 4 times..finally an hour after this my husband calls again and BM picks up and says sorry the phone got cut off..we are in the clinic as my SD seems broke her hand or finger or something..and then BM hangs up..so frustrating..
BF had a Wii he had bought for the skids before we met. When we all moved in together (2 1/2 yrs ago) i have only seen it about 3 times - SD12 takes it & keeps it at BM's. SS14 has purchased an Xbox with his own $ and could care less about the Wii (the girls are not allowed to touch HIS xbox) my BD11 has wanted animal crossing for a year & a half. Last Christmas BF said to buy it for BD11 & i said we didn't have a Wii. BF said yes we do.
Ok so my SD is an alcoholic. He almost killed my brother (biological) during a drunken rage by choking him to the point the blood vessels in his eyes ruptured and his neck was bruised. It took my mother and HB and HS to pull him off my brother. My HB and HS were 10 and 8. Once he was released he just ran. I got the call after work and rushed towards where he was walking. I drove past a hospital thinking we should go and my mother(a nurse) said if we go to the hospital SD could get arrested. My brother decided not to go.
Dh just called me and one of the drivers that works there was just in an accident and died. On top of that I found out he is an old child hood friend that my family knows every well. 
He left behind and wife and kids.
I blogged that bm wanted ss15 to live with us b/c he and bm couldn't get along. Anyway she changed her mind but I knew she would.
Fast ward to last night bm texted dh saying she HAD to buy ss15 a pair of $130 shoes.
this is how it went--
BM: I HAD to buy ss15 a pair of $130 shoes today.
DH: WHY?
BM: Ss15 IS a jock now and he HAS an image to up hold!
Dh: What? That is so stupid. He has a good pair of shoes and nothing wrong with them.
BM: Can you pay for half?
I am curious as to what the reason for your DH's divorce was? Who filed? Whose fault was it?
In my case, the BM cheated at least four times that we're aware of. she has tried several times to get back with my BF and denies that she cheated.
I realised that while I have been giving everyone a blow by blow of what has gone on this week, I never posted a history behind all of family. DH and I were married almost 4 years ago. We met through a blind date set up by of all people, his mother. We clicked and dated for a year and a half then got married.