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I can not believe what my husband did last night. I decorated the house, by myself, he didn't do anything except bring the boxes up. I wanted to decorate the living room instead of the family room because it's bigger and a prettier room. Anyway, I put up only two stockings, one on either side of the fireplace and told him I am going to put the kids stockings in the family room these are for show. Anyway the sk's get here and start complaining about where their stocking is and of course he can't just tell them the truth he has to buy into this crap and takes down the two stockings I put up.
Do you think you should have a say in all skid decisions, i.e. what do you do when a decision needs to be made about school, medical, etc.? What is your reasoning behind your opinions on this subject? Does DH discuss these issues with you and include you in the decision-making process, or are you only included in more minor skid decisions?
I'm a CP SM so I am involved in the major skid decisions, even more so since BM abandoned the kids.
So things have just escalated and escalated. She tried filing an abuse complaint with DFS but that didn't work for her. Then my ex boyfriend (my son's bio father) suddenly found out my address out of no where, and I finally got it out of him that BM had sought him out. She had figured out who he was to me and obtained his phone number, then proceeded to text him multiple times telling him it was urgent and his son was in danger.
BM called FH while I was working and had a 45 minute conversation with him about SS5's attitude and how it's gotten out of control. Apparently, he had SD8 in tears when they got off the bus because he told everyone something embarassing or some crap.
Change your profile picture to show what you MOST want for Christmas!
Me? I want plane tickets to Seattle, WA for my summer trip to Forks, WA! I went once because I have an obsession with all things Twilight, but I am planning to return because I fell in love with the town...
What about you? Besides a skid-free holiday, of course, what do YOU want for Christmas?
Yes, I friended her on facebook. On the private page I use just for the skids, so I can "spy" on what's going on with them... And since she is, sadly, a part of their lives, I wanted to keep up with her...
Loca Grande posted Tuesday about her birthday, and spelled Princess's name wrong. How do you misspell your own child's name? And this wasn't just a typo...
Then, today she took one of those stupid quizzes, "Which Tattoo is best for you?" and it came back a star because "you are a peaceful and drama free person." I nearly fell out of my chair laughing...
Soooo..I get an invite(on Facebook)along with DH,DD,DS, and their significant others for....Christmas dinner at SD30's house...along with her Mom, Grandparents, Aunts, Uncles..all of her Mom's family!!!This is the same SD who ignored my mother's funeral and just recently ignored my Dad's surprise 90th Bday party, and hasn't spoken to us since July which is something that seems to happen every year or so...she just stops contact and ignores all invites, etc. So Ladies and Gentlemen, what do you think(I'm not going)..but would just like your opinions..what would you do?????
I think that I am getting close to completely disengaging from my home life. Due to the issues with the crazy BM making rifts with her two kids and I, I feel like I'm walking on egg shells. When ever the little girl (5) sees BF and I hanging out any where in the house by ourselves she makes it a point to come in and insert herself into the situation. And the looks I get from this child are just crazy. They're not dirty mean looks. I can't explaine them.
I'll try to not write a book. You can see previous post for examples on what poop disturbers SD and BM are.
First the reason behind the call..and sorry for this being so long.. The past week things have been not so good with me and FDH. We had a horrible fight on Saturday and on Sunday, we talked, didn't really get everything worked out, but it was a start. Talked a little more on Monday and then Tuesday it all hit the fan. He asked me to come over and I told him that if there was going to be yelling and screaming (between him and his kids) that I had just gotten rid of a migraine and really didn't want to be around that. He got all upset and hung up the phone on me.
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