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I blogged that bm wanted ss15 to live with us b/c he and bm couldn't get along. Anyway she changed her mind but I knew she would.
Fast ward to last night bm texted dh saying she HAD to buy ss15 a pair of $130 shoes.
this is how it went--
BM: I HAD to buy ss15 a pair of $130 shoes today.
DH: WHY?
BM: Ss15 IS a jock now and he HAS an image to up hold!
Dh: What? That is so stupid. He has a good pair of shoes and nothing wrong with them.
BM: Can you pay for half?
I am curious as to what the reason for your DH's divorce was? Who filed? Whose fault was it?
In my case, the BM cheated at least four times that we're aware of. she has tried several times to get back with my BF and denies that she cheated.
I realised that while I have been giving everyone a blow by blow of what has gone on this week, I never posted a history behind all of family. DH and I were married almost 4 years ago. We met through a blind date set up by of all people, his mother. We clicked and dated for a year and a half then got married.
Sorry I did not update last evening, it was a busy night at the house.
I came home to my entire house clean, and my FIL standing outside directing the skids on how to clean gutters and wash a house. Apparently he ran out of things inside for them to clean. I went in to start making dinner for everyone and skid#1 showed up wanting to know if she could help. Otherwise known as she wanted to not clean gutters and cook instead, less labor intensive apparently. I told her to ask her pawpaw and if he said it was ok, then fine. Nope. She went back to cleaning gutters.
I was told through a text to my BF to "have your whore remove the pics of my daughters from her facebook page or I will file stalking charges"
Um NO!!!
My facebook is set to friends only and friends of friends, I only have 30 total and speak to each one of them on a weekly basis,
She is not listed as a friend on any of their pages, so she has a Fake page set up and is getting to my page that way.
That is fraudulent, and Let her try and file charges against ME, I think it will come back and bite HER in the ass............
My ex has recently moved his gf and her 2 kids into his house, I am happy for him and think this is a good move all around. Except for the fact that my BD is suffering because no one has taken into account how much this affects her, she is only 8 and now is sharing her home and her Dad. And her Dad expects her to share all her toys with the 7 yd old boy that's moved in. I had a good long talk with my ex about the situation and I thought it went very well and he admitted that BD might be feeling a little displaced and needs some reassurance from him.
If anyone remembers I posted about having IVF back in November. Well I'm 9.5 weeks pregnant. Yay! This is huge. For heaven's sake I'm 42, and never thought I'd have a baby of my own. I'm very nervous that something will go wrong, and that's why I haven't posted.
At the same time, SO has left the country for an extended period of time. With me pregnant. LOL - I just never do things the normal way, it seems.
sorry this is kinda last long, but my question is at the end.
this time last year we were just getting to see sd after 6 months of bm trying to hide her. now, since like july, dh and bm have been 'on speaking terms'. Makes me kinda nervous that she will just blow that top.
For about three years half my mind, maybe more, has been filled by my stbx BF and stuff related to SD, BM, MIL, his divorce. I came here to this site when we first started to live together and I felt crazy, guilty, confused. It has helped me immensely but now, as I look at how being in this relationship has drained me in so many ways, I wonder if being here on this site is preventing me from freeing myself from everything that has happened.
Got this from my mom on Tuesday as we were discussing SD and them meeting for dinner on Saturday for the first time in 9 months. "You knew I was married before when you met me", got this last night. Really!!!
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