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Submitted by ohiknow on Wed, 01/12/2011 - 7:01pm

Does anyones BM lie about stupid pointless stuff?

It seems like every week we find out something stupid BM lied about. She says she takes the skids to some event, skids say they never went. She texts about movies they don't see or restaurants they don't eat at. She makes up phony conversations with teachers and acquaintances. What's the point?! We don't ask what she does with skids, yet she lies about dumb things.

Reason for Divorce

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Submitted by ohiknow on Fri, 01/07/2011 - 10:53am

I am curious as to what the reason for your DH's divorce was? Who filed? Whose fault was it?

In my case, the BM cheated at least four times that we're aware of. she has tried several times to get back with my BF and denies that she cheated.

Fake Apologies

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Submitted by ohiknow on Thu, 01/06/2011 - 9:00pm

Does anyone else get these from Crazy BMs?

This has happened on several occasions, but I want to pinpoint a specific one.

Over the holidays, BM was on her super crazy horse. One minute its "let's get dinner and catch up. You are still my best friend. I miss us" and the next its "your evil and fake and your girlfriend is the worst person ever and she's evil and awful".

lately

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Submitted by ohiknow on Sat, 01/01/2011 - 4:25am

Lately my youngest SS has been acting so strange. It was always been the older one that never really "warmed" to me whereas the youngest loved me.

Now the oldest doesn't exactly "love me forever" but he has warmed up to me more. And the youngest barely will speak to me. He rolls his eyes when I talk to him. He has been saying things like "I don't want SM around" and telling his dad "secrets" (which are typically things about me. Doesn't want me around, etc). He is only 5!

could you imagine?

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Submitted by ohiknow on Thu, 12/30/2010 - 12:51am

Could you imagine a life like this?...

A friend of mine was telling me that growing up her BM and SM were BEST FRIENDS. She said they went shopping together all the time. Would often times take trips together and hang out all the time.
I am at a loss for words. You mean this actually happens in REAL life??????????

Personally, the thought of shopping with BM makes me want to gag, if you could see her wardrobe you would agree....that is if I didn't punch her first. Hahah. What about you? Could you imagine being like this with the BM

smooth sailing

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Submitted by ohiknow on Sat, 12/18/2010 - 11:21pm

This week with BM has been incredibly smooth. BF and I joked about calling the police to file a missing person report because she is being so accommodating and nice. Haha Wink

She hasn't tried to pick a fight when things don't go her way. Has been very nice in all talks about christmas. She has been a little "over flirty" with bf ("we should get together and catch up" "sometimes seeing you makes me miss you hahaha") but that's easy to handle.

Could use some support

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Submitted by ohiknow on Fri, 12/10/2010 - 10:38pm

Feeling a little down today. But I can't seem to shake it. I know I shouldn't let what BM says bring me down, and normally I don't dwell on it, but maybe I'm just in a funk.

I could just use a little support from other SM's (being a future SM myself).

Apparently according to BM I am "terrible to" skids and they "hate" me and "cry because how unhappy they are" with me.

How do you deal?

How to handle?...

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Submitted by ohiknow on Thu, 12/09/2010 - 9:07pm

:?

Slightly confused on what to do with BM.

Lately BM has been super nice. I mean SCARY nice, overly polite, friendly, the whole nine yards (with the occasional small "lets talk about getting back together" thrown in). It has actually been kinda unsettling with how nice she is, but we've been friendly right back.

ANYWAYS.

The wonderful telephone game

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Submitted by ohiknow on Fri, 11/19/2010 - 9:31pm

I'm feeling frustrated today. SS10 overheard a conversation between my boyfriend and his parents. One week later, BM is cussing out BF for "talking about her" and "feeding her sons lies about her". Over the last few months we have had a lot of problems with SS going to BM's and telling her all sorts of stuff and then her blowing up at BF for it. Whether its what movie we watched. What we did. Who we saw. Whatever it doesn't matter.

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