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Just thought i would ask to find out where you all are abouts?
I am Canadian but live in the UK, have done for the last 7 years almost. My SO is british, we have been together for nearly 3 years now. Let me just say I am jealous of the US/CA law regarding custody etc; the courts here are a bitch.
We desperately want to emigrate back to Canada in the next few years but the SD situation is a toughie. SS9 and SD3 will be fine but its SS11 we are the most concerned about.
Okay a while back, I had mentioned how I think random "whistling" is annoying!! And boy did I wish I hadnt brought that up! For the past few months my SS11 whistles all the time!!! Loudly!!! while Im cooking, cleaning, watching TV and when hes just walking around the house! WTF SPITE I tell ya!!! cant I just whack those lips off his face???? LMAO
Okay maybe I am crazy but my SS11 LOVES when his father and I fight!!! I try to discipline him and when daddy comes and gives him his way...it makes us fight and he sneaks a little smirk at me!! Well today I called him on it in front of the whole familY..Im so tired of him doing this. And I tell myself that I wouldnt fall for his BS anymore...but my DH just gives in and NEVER backs me up!! WHAT GIVES????? I was doing so well for a while...but today I snapped....I WANT OUT!!
I really need some help/advice. So I think I am going to have to start from the very beginning.....it might be long.....
When my bf and his ex split he walked away with nothing. Not even birthday presents that were given to him over the years from family and friends. She got everything and he agreed to this because he didn't want to fight with her and he didn't want his boys lives to change anymore than they were going to already.
I know I have to tell DH, the skids know I have to tell DH. I need advice on HOW to approach it with DH in an attempt to minimize the nuclear explosion that is sure to come.
So it is midnight on the dot last night and sd21s bf texts me....call me right now. So I call and find out that sd21 went to her friend's house and got arrested and taken to jail.
Come to find out from friends mother, sd21 took rum and beer over and they were all making noise in the car out front and smoking cigarettes. Cops stopped to make sure it wasn't marijuana, and sd21 had a warrant for unpaid speeding tickets.
So today, my hubby & I both took the day off because we had a mid-day meeting at the school with SD12's teachers, guidance counselor, vice principal, and school psychologist, oh, I forgot BM was also there. The day started much like any other. I was the first up in the house, I met a neighbor at the HS bus stop so she could bring brownies and cookies to my SS16 - today is his B-day (so if you live anywhere in Orange or Rockland Counties in NY---BEWARE, another student driver on the road).
My Hell and Daddy-kins came home about a half an hour ago...She goes into her room and shuts the door....A few minutes later we all hear her annoying voice screeching "Dad!!! My acne medication is missing!!"
Daddy-kins: "You probably just lost it in that dirty room.." (He acknowledges her room is dirty but heaven forbid he should tell her to clean it.)
My Hell: "NO, I left it on my dresser this morning...I neeeeeeeedddd it so I don't break out!" (She is right about that...With out that face cream she is a regular pizza face...)
I have a special request! If you change avatars, please let us know!!! Or at least little ol me. Lol. I know most of you by you avatars and then you change and it messes up my whole stalk experience.
I used to like this one poster but she had the worst avatar ever. Lol. It was a set of lips that were full of fever blisters. I can’t remember her name so I am not sure if she is still here and just changed her avatar.
Do you know most by the avatar or the name?
I'm at a loss.
So much of a loss, that I'm sitting down and starting a blog. I didn't know if I should...I didn't know where to start...so I told myself, "Woman. Just sit down and start writing."
I'm engaged to a man with 2 bio-atomicbombdropping-teens - SD17 & SS18. The family issues are quite, interesting, as I'm without children of my own and the BM & Hubby#3 have 8 children (with the two I previous mentioned) combined. Let's just say that life is never boring.
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