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Over the weekend, Saturday to be exact, BF went to pick up skids at thier respective schools like he is supposed to every Friday. Only 3 of 4 were at one school and the other oldest skid was not even at her school.
Then he gets text asking him when and where he is picking the other 2 up. Because BM had gotten them/...... Well he cant answer because she has him blocked from texting and calling her, and the 3 oldest who have phones.
So, he just leaves it alone and documents the events in his trusty notebook.
This is about my own kid not a skid. Daughter 19 who has a 3 year old was cut off my moms cell plan by my mom during one of their numerous fights. I added her to our plan to help her out. She's being a typical brat who thinks she's entitled to stuff just because she exists. Now that her and my mom aren't fighting they talk constantly, I have the phone records to prove it, she's even shared the wonderful things my mother (who I stopped talking to because everything wrong in her life is my fault and I look so much like my father she divorced etc.) says about me.
My BD12 has brought up a few times now that SD12 has said, that "the only reason my dad hasn't kicked you all out is because he likes having someone here that cooks and cleans". By 'you all' she means myself, my BD6, BD12, and BD16. Of course I know this isn't true, however, it is hurtful that she STILL after three years living together as a family, doesn't 'get it' that her father and I love each other and plan on spending the rest of our lives together.
Well they met for dinner. First time together in 9 months. I stayed home, not my place to go. Not really happy with him, that she picked a Saturday night when we didn't have kids to do this. Yeah, great we won't get another one of those for three months, I am sure. I have no doubt that was intentional.
This is stupid, I know. But I am interested in the answers.
If your DH could save you OR the BM from death...who do you think he would choose? You or the mother of his little angles?
My dd's bf's came over to meet me. First I work nights so I was still in my jammies. :O
Anyway the first thing out of her mouth was OH MY GOODNESS you look JUST like dd! Now the reason I fund this is funny is b/c not long ago bm called dh JUST to tell him that my dd is beautiful and she looks NOTHING like her mom and wishes she could see a pic her dad b./c she obviously has to look like him. :?
I just checked the mail and our child support check came in. BM is still required to pay the back child support she owed prior to her rights being terminated. So they garnish her prison wages (for jobs done in prison) to pay towards it.
This months check: $3.45
I wrote a couple of weeks ago about how the skids treat Dad like sh**.
BM has regularly sent Dad bitchy emails. One of her favorite things to do is to try and make him think that she is hardly able to pay the bills. She works fulltime and receives $1300 in cs for the 2 girls.
I guess the skids figured I woke him up last night and told him. Either that or once they saw his face couldn't hold the secret that they had already spilled to me.
DH and I actually have a day off together today, he even on days off wakes up early, his body is just on that schedule. The skids were getting ready for school and skid#1 stopped doing her hair to talk to him about the cell phone issue. He thanked her for being honest and asked where the phone was. She explained they had talked to me about it last night while he was sick and they gave me the phone.
This is our last weekend together for a year.
I put post it notes all over the house and hope the kids find them while I am gone.
I bought a little calendar and marked down significant events each month to look forward to so the time flies by.
I bought a "365 Questions" for Couples book so each day I talk to DH I can ask him questions so we don't drift apart too bad.
I don't know what else to do to prepare for this deployment.
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