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:jawdrop: Hubby and I are sitting on our respective couches relaxing, watching Seinfield, catching up with each other about our day. He had conference calls on the hour every hour. I worked from home, so I get all the calls. BD woke up in pain...cramps...had her pop some Advil, put the heating pad on her belly, gave her breakfast and sent her to school. A few hours later, the school calls...she's in the nurse's office...more cramps...told the nurse to give her advil and let her rest then send her back to class. Two hours later, I was at the school picking her up...dr.
My DH and I got in a terrible argument a few days ago after he met with SD32 and she admitted that, not only is she knocked up AGAIN (#5), but this time she married the thug! Oh, and she also dropped out of nursing school. I have said on more than one occasion that this convicted crack dealer isn’t welcome in our home so she deflected all the shady crap she’s been pulling off on to me because she doesn’t feel “comfortable” around me since I don’t want anything to do with the “love of her life and husband.” That was her reason for screwing up our Christmas….
My stepdaughter (of whom we have 50% custody of) just told her Dad and I that she wants to go live with her Mom full time. I know that I am not her real mom, but, I love her as if she were my own. I have no children of my own, and never felt the need too because I had her. For years, we have done everything we could for her - in fact, we just purchsed a much bigger house so that she could have a bigger room and her own bathroom - something very improtant to a pre-teen girl.
In a follow-up/clarification of my last post...
when FDH left BM with SS2 yesterday, SS2 cried and didn't want to be left with BM saying "bye mom" and reaching for FDH ...
that is why he said 'i love you'
and hey you ladies are SO wonderful, you have already made me feel so much better about it!
I love you ladies.
I just wanted to say thank you to all those on here who may have read about my "breakdown" - thank you for listening. To those who replied - thank you for reaching out to me. To those who had me in their prayers - thank you.
I cried myself to sleep and slept a long, long time.
I live in a smaller town…not teeny tiny, but small enough where I run into people I know often – too often if you ask me… I was shopping last weekend and while in this particular store I ran into both of my DH’s BMs and the Skids (he has two kids with two moms) – the BMs were not shopping together. In both instances, the kids and BMs ignored me. Super. I don’t know why it bothered me, but I was particularly bothered that the SD12 looked at me and looked away. We have had a good relationship, but lately she is bratty and lippy and just rude. This ticked me off.
SD came for the weekend. DH picked her up Friday night and they arrived in time for supper. She made some faces about supper being yucky but we played a few card games and watched a movie and the evening went pretty smoothly. SD did talk back to DH a few times but given her age (12) I think that's pretty normal. At one point the kids were watching videos and I said that Justin Beiber kid looks king of girly, doesn't he? SD replied "NO, he's yummy, you're ugly and look like a boy". I sort of let it go just becuse I had insulted Justin, lol. I did say that's not very nice.
Princess (SD 18)and Loghead have spent the day at an area hospital. For medical reasons (not related to her possible eating disorder) she was taken by ambulance to the nearest hospital, where she will have to have a minor medical procedure this evening.
Being the "Christian" she is, I hope she thinks, "Mmmm... I told a major lie to Dad and Last-Wife- the people who love me most in the world, and this happened? Maybe God is telling me something?!"
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