In a follow-up/clarification of my last post...

when FDH left BM with SS2 yesterday, SS2 cried and didn't want to be left with BM saying "bye mom" and reaching for FDH ...

that is why he said 'i love you'

and hey you ladies are SO wonderful, you have already made me feel so much better about it!

I love you ladies.

I live in a smaller town…not teeny tiny, but small enough where I run into people I know often – too often if you ask me… I was shopping last weekend and while in this particular store I ran into both of my DH’s BMs and the Skids (he has two kids with two moms) – the BMs were not shopping together. In both instances, the kids and BMs ignored me. Super. I don’t know why it bothered me, but I was particularly bothered that the SD12 looked at me and looked away. We have had a good relationship, but lately she is bratty and lippy and just rude. This ticked me off.

Princess (SD 18)and Loghead have spent the day at an area hospital. For medical reasons (not related to her possible eating disorder) she was taken by ambulance to the nearest hospital, where she will have to have a minor medical procedure this evening.

Being the "Christian" she is, I hope she thinks, "Mmmm... I told a major lie to Dad and Last-Wife- the people who love me most in the world, and this happened? Maybe God is telling me something?!"

Awhile back I created quite a stir around here when I blogged about wanting my stepmother involved in my baby shower, and how my mom reacted to all of that (she did not want my SM to even attend it, but I was really saddened that my SM wasn't going to attend). To refresh on the background, my parents have been divorced for 11 years now and my mom would still take my dad back in a heartbeat. Dad is happily remarried to the woman he had an affair with -- my SM -- (although my parents were separated at the time), and all this happened when my sister and I were both over 17.