So it is midnight on the dot last night and sd21s bf texts me....call me right now. So I call and find out that sd21 went to her friend's house and got arrested and taken to jail.

Come to find out from friends mother, sd21 took rum and beer over and they were all making noise in the car out front and smoking cigarettes. Cops stopped to make sure it wasn't marijuana, and sd21 had a warrant for unpaid speeding tickets.

For 4 years I have told sd21 she MUST take care of these things, at least on a payment plan. Because of how she just blew them off I told her, I WILL NOT PICK YOU UP FROM JAIL BECAUSE YOU AREN"T EVEN TRYING TO PAY THEM.

She told her friends not to call me because she KNEW she deserved it, but her live in bf was beside himself. I told him to leave her there and teach her a lesson, but nooooooooo! He scraped up $500 and got her out.

She calls me and tells me, yea, I missed a payment and they got me. All this after wrecking without insurance, 4 speeding tickets, running a red light ticket, suspended license, license surchase,...I could go on.

This is a perfect example of why we are frustrated with skids...they think they are invincible. Well, guess what, I finally got that point across to her today.