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OK to give you all some background, I pick up the skids on a Wednesday from school when their after school clubs have finished. Well yesterday the clubs were not on so I picked them up from their BMs SO house as this is where they live when with BM.
Anyway BM own mother had been ill for some time and we knew she had taken a turn for the worse and she passed away on Monday morning. Now her mother lives about 2.5 hours away so it was going to be a strain on her to sort everything out.
This man killed several people in another state and they tracked him to here where I live 37 years later! That just sent chills up me, how can some do that and then hide in plain sight???
I was so surprised when they said where they found him and he thought he was being arrested for a meth lab! He had forgotten the people he had killed and never thought he would get caught! holy crap that is so close to home! freaking out a little right now. :O
otherwise his damn kids would've made me LEAVE ALREADY!!!!! GOD these kids! I couldn't be more sick of them if I tried! Every damn time they come over, ridiculousness is the letter of the day. They haven't even been in my house for a full hour yet and I'm already wishing I could put them out on the streets! I'm seriously going to leave this house at some point on a weekend we have them, and REFUSE to even answer the phone until they leave. I have plenty of people I can stay with for the weekends, including some single girlfriends who I KNOW I'd get up to no good with.
I need advice on a situation that has presented it's self in my family and it is not going away.
SD 14 wants her own room (her BM started the idea)as we apparantly have a "huge" house.
and her dad my fiance feels really strongly about it and is not willing to comprimise.
we have been a family unit for 3 years.
We are being audited because BM decided the year that CS was increased from $600 to $1000 that now she had the right to claim both kids. For years, (at least 6 or 7) they each claimed 1.
We have roughly a 65/35 split. Nothing is in writing as to who should claim who. Anyone have any experience with this crap. Thoughts on what the IRS will say. Will they take into consideration that they have each claimed 1 for past many years and the only thing that changed last year was an increase of $400 a month in CS?
Will the back talk never end? I wish that I wasn't the only one that sees him doing this. He does it when DH is home but I'm the only one it seems to bother. When DH is home SS ends up being the greatest kid but when I am not, he turns into a brat from hell. I ended up freaking out only to be told to "Listen to what you say. No wonder he doesn't listen." Excuse me! I say the same damn thing you say. I just get fed up after the 3rd time of him "not hearing." Believe me, his hearing is fine. I've had it checked by the schools every year. I want to stop crying daily.
Well our relship has bren down to t buse that brngs us
Last night we had a huge fight. I mean the worst fight ever, World War 3.
This girl i work with has a NASTY habit of bullying EVERYONE that works there. For some reason the owner won't say anything to her.
So here is the deal we are allowed to take our chargers for our phones so we can keep our phones charged as we work in a bar and need to have access to them for safety. I brought my charger and when I couldn't find it I thought I lost it at home. I never thought someone would steal it never crossed my mind. I even said something to someone else that I work with about it and we thought the same thing.
SOOOO the BM KNEW she was to call our "supervisor" for a visit IF she wanted one, who does she call? DH! And wanted to move the visit to Sunday instead of Saturday. DH told her "no the supervisor can't do it that day" BMs response? "but I MISS THEM!" really? You don't bother to call or show up for a Fucking YEAR and all of a sudden decide you "miss" them? DH called me and said "I am not putting the kids through that again" this is NOT a court ordered visit, and she STILL has not provided ANY info that she was ordered to provide! How freaking dumb does she think we are?
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