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MOTY Is definitely something she would enjoy because it is all about who lies best to the children. It really does not matter if they really know the truth, they believe her lies. You can show them everything you have to back you up 100% and they still believe in the lies they are being told... How the hell is that anyway to raise a child? Then you wonder why they freak out when they get caught lieing... apparently the apple does not fall far from the tree... You want to raise liars... that is on you.
I need to get a hold of that mirror and break it. See if she does something it's fine, but if we do it OMG it's a holy war. But if you catch her doing it she lies about it. This was the case yesterday.
Long story so I apologize ahead of time. Last weekend the kids were here, SD 12 asked me to take her to get a halloween costume, didn't really want to but said ok. Before we left, I was told SS was going to be a serial killer, which his mother bought him and thought, great, just what he needs. Anyway we go to TJ Max to see if they had anymore of the princess costumes I had gotten my daughter and they did but SD didn't like them. We head over to party city to check out the costumes and SD picks a Lady GaGa one.
Don't think i can do this much longer, have been with my boyfriend for 2 years, he has been married and divorced twice, he has a set of identical twins that are 9 that act like they are 3 and get treated like babies. He insists on sleeping with them still, they throw temper tantrums and there is no punishment for bad behavior. He always says he will change, but it never happens, either I leave or go crazy, I love him but I am not happy.....HELP
Ok..before I start on my vent let me apologise up front as I am typing this on my cell. About a week ago I posted about issues with SD7 making disrespectful comments that I believe is coming from her BM. I got some good advice, however, BM is a force all her own. BM is the epitome of scary divorce psycho ex stories.
Today is our GD's birthday and we are not welcome to call her.SD does not answer our calls because we once asked her questions,and she freaks out if anyone asks her anything..so we haven't in many years....Sd sees herself as the perfect Mother on her third mariage to a 23 yr old..she is 32..he encourages her to ignore us as he has always ignored his family so we have no chance..she is a mythologist with sincere need of psychiatric help..she lies when the truth would be easier..but she loves the drama she creates..she sees what will get her the most attention and uses it..so as hard as we ha
How do you all feel about children from a BM's previous relationship (not your DH's) visiting your home. BM has an older child by someone else (SS's half brother) that came to my house today. (first time in almost 5 years) My husband has included him in outings with his son in the past, but never brought him to our house. He stayed in the living room this time, but next time, I'm sure he'll want to visit other areas. Call me crazy, but I kind of feel like a friend of my enemy is visiting my home.
Apparently yesterday afternoon guidance counselor called DH to get a better understanding of the dynamics of what is going on. Apparently the teachers on my SS's team are concerned that BM may show up at something even though she was told that I would be there. So the counselor talked to DH and got the background. He explained that SS didn't want BM there and had asked me to chaperone the field trip and wanted me to help with his Field Day tomorrow. DH explained that BM had never volunteered before and was doing so now to see SS in a different environment.
I'm happy to report that 3 years into my marriage with SS11 and SD7, things have gotten markedly better. SD7 reported to me that she pulled out another one of her own teeth. This is the child whose BM would not pull her daughter's teeth or take her to the dentist when she had loose teeth and new ones growing in. I literally had to pull out her first four teeth; DH wouldn't do it, BM wouldn't do it. SD7 also just reported that when BM said "pick out a cereal" in the cereal aisle, SD7 decided ON HER OWN to choose oatmeal.
What is it with POS BM’s? Nasty has copied photo’s that I had posted of the SKids & used one of them as her damn profile pic on FB!
HOW RUDE!
She literally has NOTHING to do with her children yet she feels she can take photo’s off of MY page even though they were PAID for my ME! Her only contact with them was for a total of 12 minutes, combined to cover 2 phone calls with 2 children...so that's what...6 minutes per month per child? Awesome!
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