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My bf's BM tells him she wants to be able to pick my bf up or him meet her and FSD places. But im not allowed to come. Wants the FSD to see them get along. Is it wrong for me to tell him thats disrespectful to me? That FSD can come to the house like shes been doing? BM says that he has to have a relationship with her and FSD in order to see the FSD. I say he act civil when he talks to BM but thats it. I dont think he should have to go places when FSD can come to the house and he dont even like being around BM.
So (I) have SS5 full time and he sees BM on weekends. I said (I ) because dh works alot of overtime. Anyway, ss5 has no school next week for the WHOLE week. So I told dh I'm going out of town to visit family for a couple days next week (lie) and really would like if you got bm on board so she can keep her son for the week. Now if I don't say anything, he would be more than happy for ss5 to be with me all week. I hate to lie, but if I say he has no school he should be with bm, he'll catch a attitude. I have ss all week, every week and need breaks from him!
SS4 is almost five years old now and we are having some issues at night. He is getting up and getting into a lot of random things. One night it was taking literally everything out of the fridge and pouring it on his bedroom carpet. Another night it was going into the bathroom and spreading conditioner everywhere including messing with the kitty litter. Another night it was drawing all over the damn place. And one time he even got out of the house and up the road. :o We have since installed top door locks that he can't reach. I am frustrated and confused.
Well im new to this site. I found it last nite and most stories here are about how most ppl dont like there Skids. My story isnt anything like that. Ive been with my bf going on 2 yrs. And he has a 3 yr old daughter. I love her to death and she loves me and respects and listens to me and stuff. My bf is still married but been seperated for two years next month i did not break up there marriage they werent together. He filed for divorce one time but the day he had court he had to leave town to go work. Id rather him work since we werent talking bout marriage rite away.
Deleted for privacy concerns. I do appreciate all the kind responses, truly.
I say 'friend' as she is really an ex co worker. I heard on the new that she was shot in the face by her bf tues morn. She is in the hospital right now. She was found walking down the street for their home already shot by the police.
The bf called the police saying he shot his gf and he felt he had no choice. Now 'friend' is kinda psycho as I worked with her for about a year. she is the one that came in with mace and maced everyone. I don;t know if you remember that or not.
Well its already starting with SD12 and the Christmas list. Last year she had some expensive items on her list that she didn't get. So this year she expects double time in regards to Christmas gifts. Not the way I am used to doing things at all. My kids always had three Christmases me, their Dad and their SM's mom always bought them nice gifts. We always coordinated a little so there were no duplicates but all told I have always spent around 200 per kid. Total with stocking stuffers and all. I think that is a good amount. As they got older it still worked well.
GG(biodad I live with, short for "God's Gift") got a letter in the mail stating that VD 13, is five years behind in reading and writing skills. A "new" program called "Fusion Reading" is supposed to catch her up. . . yeah right.
He opened it, read it, said NOTHING, i mean NOTHING. Just left the letter out for all to see. Maybe he thinks I will "go there" without his initial input. He is sorely mistaken. I've learned to keep my mouth shut and my opinions to myself. Even if it is about the Behemoth (BM). He defends her at every turn. . .STILL!
Does anyone else have this problem?
My SO is exhausted and has to nap all the time. He gets up early to help SD get ready for school and to call his other kids. After work he crashes. Then, when SD gets home, he suddenly has a ton of energy to go talk to her. When she goes to bed he comes into our room and crashes again.
I constantly find myself counting days on the calendar or looking ahead to holidays and figuring how many of SD's winter break days she will be with us and so on. I am in a consistently anxious state about it. How can I learn to just LET GO and take it as it comes? I can't stand that I obsess about this. DH and BM recently signed off on a new agreement so I know pretty much now what it will be like on a week to week basis, but there are of course the upcoming holidays that I was configuring on the calendar this morning. I wish I just didn't care one way or the other.
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