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i posted that bm texted dh's phone and wanted to call dh. Well she called tonight and it was about what ss15 did.
ss15 has band and stays after school for practice so bm gives him money to go eat during their brakes. The other morning bm asked ss15 where he was going to eat that night. Ss15 said DQ, bm said tht is too far and if you are stupid enough to walk there don't call me to come get you and you will be lat going back.
Disengaged, as much as I can be but DH still doesn't realise that him treating SD16 as "poor baby" is not helping. As a matter of fact, she's using it to her advantage.
The book has finally become available at my library!! Picked it up today. So excited. lol......have a great weekend steps!!
He wants me to be SS6's mother - more or less. After BM 'borrowed' the kids one night for a dinner with her family last week, she returned them and SS6 latched on to me right away. We figure that BM and her mom ignored him the whole time and smothered SS4 - to the point that SS4 returned from the outing with twice as many toys as SS6.
The report just got emailed to our family email account. Ss at one point could not be bothered to give us anything from school so we get the reports emailed. Here is what he got. 65 in English, 71 in Math, 58 in Science and 63 in History. And the most infuriating part is the teacher's comments. All of them mentioned that he does excellent work in his assignments but leaves entire sections in his unit tests blank. He gets high 80's and 90's in assignments. They are the only things keeping him from failing. He knows the material. But he just sits there during test taking.
Well, he finally did it. He finally told SD22 that she is not welcome at the house -- at all! :jawdrop: I couldn't believe it. Not that she's just not welcome when I'm not here, but not welcome at all. I told him the other day that if he didn't tell her that I would tell her myself. She showed up two different days this week, and seeing her makes me physically ill.
LOL-AS I predicted....the exh wants to take a trip out of the country to go 'meet' his new fiance/girlfriend. THey apparently knew eachother in HS-and have started a long distance relationship (in different countries no less). So w/in 4 weeks of them talking he's sporting a silver engagement ring (traditional for that country, both men and women wear silver bands).
Had to send a note to a teacher today for SS. Email below...
SS13 mentioned to me that his mom was at school yesterday volunteering for the Ice Cream Social. SS was rather confused by this, since she has not been involved since elementary school. I am sure it is so she can see him in a different setting besides their EOWE visitation.
Since we now have full custody of SS at his request, the relationship between all of us is tenuous at best. All communication is currently now done through the attorneys.
My goals for this email: to show BM that I'm looking at this from all sides including hers, to see what she thinks about a mediator session, to show her that i am willing to take her thoughts into account and work with her, to show her that the meeting (if it happens) will NOT be me defending myself to her.
BM,
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