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I hear my skids talking about seeing their mom.for the holidays. They haven't seen her since July 2010 for 3 weeks. Supposedly BM,her man, and her 2 other kids are coming to Chicago for a music fest and going to pick up the boys and take them.to Miami for Xmas break... I think. I don't know if I heard it all right. But I've heard this empty promise before... I would LOVE it if skids go away for a week.or 2 to be with her. I need a break!!!! Plus she pretty much ignores them.anyways so its not like her influence rubs off on them.
So DH indirectly asked Ss if he discussed the holiday schedule with BM. He said I have no idea of what is going on.
I think they will both be suprised when we stick to her schedule and he comes over for New Years weekend only.
Hate liars. Not sure who is lying....
They had parent teacher conference the other day. I didn't go but ss6 wanted to so FDH took him. He said that BM didn't appear happy about that but a lit of parents take the kids. I think it's good fir them to hear everything, good and bad.
So my wife found this amusing. Around 5pm I run to the store to pick up a few things. My SD21 calls my wife and here's the following convo:
SD21: Do you know what Derrick is making for dinner?
DW: No, why?
SD21: Because I'm hungry as hell, I'm starving.
DW: Then why not make yourself something to eat?
SD21: There's nothing in the house to eat.
Still taking small steps...DH are still working on things and going to counceling, which seems to help. It's going to be a long road...the holidays will be rough this year since we have decided not to spend them together. 
I can't believe how low this woman will go!! BF and SD went grocery shopping yesterday. I stayed home . A few minutes of peace for me lol. Well they have all the Thanksgiving displays out and she wants to get all this stuff for Thanksgiving. BF tells her you spend Tgiving with your mom this year. I will pick you up on Saturday. Cue sad droopy eyes from SD "mom said she can't afford to do Tgiving this year so can I go to your house?". Of course BF puffs up with pride to the rescue of course SD you come home with us. Now I have two problems with this.
This is my first blog ever. Im not really sure how to start, i guess ill start by saying that im frustrated with my situation and just want things to get better. I have been in a relationship with my bf for 2 years. He has a 7yr old daughter. Shes a great kid, but somethimes she says things and dose things that really iust think are rude, or aside from being rude just irritating and attention demanding.
UPDATE ON THE LATEST CSEA ORDER:
Well, BM is not gonna be real happy, but I am not here to please her... I talked to our attorney, and well... The Judge and Magistrates decisions are being appealed to the Appellate court, and there is going to be a Stay put on the recent order... In the State of Ohio, they are not legally allowed to take 50% of the Obligor's pay check. They can take up to 30% and no more. But... If the children are in school, there is no legal right for 1 parent to be the Sole financial responsible party of said children...
Like most BPD/NPD (in denial) people, BM has huge big shiny red buttons that are easy to push. (deliberately or unintentionally) One of BM's buttons is me. BM has forbidden the word "stepmother" in her house, and just the mention of me can send her into a rage.
Has anyone used this or seen it work miracles? I like the idea of a dvd re: PAS but I"m still not sure about the "rejected parent" having to put up with all sorts of disrespect as is recommended. Not to say that the rejected parent blows up at a child for being disrespectful, but firmly warns the child that this is not acceptable rather than just sitting there and being an emotional punching bag. . .which happens with or without the DVD.
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