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Havent been on in awhile but this is an update to my other blogs. Well for starters im 15 weeks preggo. We are excited. Its not my fiances first but it is my first baby. Update on the divorce it was finalized in febuary. We found out i was preggo in december and we wanted SD to be the first to know but BM wouldnt let us get SD for christmas because my fiance didnt want to give her his cell number when she had the house phone number she could reach him on. Well i think that was a stupid reason go not let FH see SD.

Advice?

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The FDH went to court on monday and BM served him divorce paper (YAYYY) and full custody papers. Well he pays child support but works out of town and when hes in town he sees his daughter when ever BM isnt acting stupid. If she was awarded full custody how bad will it get? Right now he can only see SD when BM wants him too. But when we are at home and not traveling she wants him to go to her house and see her and sometimes lets him take her for the weekend but when he refuses to go to her house she gets mad and doesnt let him see SD.

Right or Wrong?

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My bf's BM tells him she wants to be able to pick my bf up or him meet her and FSD places. But im not allowed to come. Wants the FSD to see them get along. Is it wrong for me to tell him thats disrespectful to me? That FSD can come to the house like shes been doing? BM says that he has to have a relationship with her and FSD in order to see the FSD. I say he act civil when he talks to BM but thats it. I dont think he should have to go places when FSD can come to the house and he dont even like being around BM.

New here...Need opinions...

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Well im new to this site. I found it last nite and most stories here are about how most ppl dont like there Skids. My story isnt anything like that. Ive been with my bf going on 2 yrs. And he has a 3 yr old daughter. I love her to death and she loves me and respects and listens to me and stuff. My bf is still married but been seperated for two years next month i did not break up there marriage they werent together. He filed for divorce one time but the day he had court he had to leave town to go work. Id rather him work since we werent talking bout marriage rite away.