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So after talking with my husband tonight, i find out that he has had a nice conversation with his ex about the kids and watever else they have decided to talk about. Now this conversation took place two days ago in the early afternoon apparently when he was at work. Here's the problem that i have, my husband and i have been together for about 3 years now and married for a little over a year. In the begining of our relationship there was alot of drama, lies, etc regarding him and his ex and them not be over each other.
Our court order with BM has really helped both my DH and I deal with her. We love to ignore the nonsense of emails, voicemails and texts now that we have papers to back us up. Sounds like we are pushovers but BM can't stand it and shuts her mouth when we put the court order to her. Thank the lord.
...appears to be more important than having a really important, albeit potentially pointless, conversation about upcoming court. DH is officially in his cave and in spite of the snarky first sentence, I understand. There feels like there is just no point in discussing it.
Steptalkers who have been "through" court- law guardians, psychological evaluations, re-written alienation clauses, judge-ordered parenting stress management classes:
This weekend wasn't that bad. The SDs and I made cookies tonight, and DH pretty much left us to ourselves. I am trying to keep calm, as DH and I have to be back in court tomorrow because the BM has decided to be her usual bitchy self. Our atty says we've got a good case, and things look good for us, but I am still nervous. I have been "mom" to these 2 girls for the last 2 years while BM has been here when it suited her. The oldest SD said that she didn't want to see BM "ever again". I'll let you know how court went tomorrow.
I am so glad that I found this site, because I really need other like-minded parents to talk to. What I am going through right now is very distressing and I need people to talk to for support.
This stupid child is unbel immature. Am trying to disengage, but now SS16 has decided HE wants to spend EOW with us I feel I should make an effort. WHY BOTHER??? We have a family gym membership (myself SO and my 2 bios). Not paying to add on SS as he is never here.....this wknd we invited him to come swimming with us. He is 16....him and SO were in the changing rooms forever while me and my two (9 and 13) were already in pool swimming for a good 20 mins. Asked where they were...."SS bought shorts that don't fit, I had to find a pin and pin them up for him.
I need to rant. This is the second straight weekend that I’ve barely seen my husband. More and more now his life is revolving his boys’ sports teams or flying up to see his daughter. His sons are becoming entitled brats who use guilt to manipulate him and infringe on his time.
DH & I have very little quality time together and it’s been months since we went out together and did something as a couple that didn’t involve his kids.
im so glad i found this site. i thought i was the only one who felt like this. i have been with my partner over 5 years we have a 2 and half year old boy together. he has a 10 year old from a previous relationship. after all this time i still hate the weekends we have her. i thought it would get better but no really.i feel like a bad person but i just cant click with her sometimes shes ok but most of the time i found her irritating. she has no friends where we are. she use to but not in the last few years. she wont leave the house and follows ye around.
Skids just left. Was a short and easy weekend!! 
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