Yes .... exactly how i feel today. I have finally excepted I have this and looking into ways of living with its many issues. I love my hubby and this will not change so i just have to deal with SD but she is moving back here.  We could deal with her when she lived 1800 miles away it was better. At 40 years old I thought she would have grown up by now but it's not better sometimes it's worse. I'm just glad I found this place to vent. At least I have my H that knows me my heart how it functions and also he knows SD's. Cut and dry... but not very fun to live through.

I saw another post about this that got me thinking about the issue. I've seen people here get WICKED about when SMs call their SKs "ours" or "mine". Sometimes I think it is ABSOLUTELY valid but other times I think people jump the gun.. I don't think its automatically a bad thing depending on circumstances.

Let me give both sides. 

So as I mentioned I have a migraine starting and its our wekeend with SO's daughter. I never love these weekends to begin with . Now on top of her forgetting her bras she did what I knew she would literally 5 minutes after being here - She saw me walk out to the garage to see her father and had to immediatley follow me out.

So Budweiser wrote this commerical for step dads for Father's Day and while I appreciate the 'sentiment' we would never see anything like this for Mother's Day. Never.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ggfVLhLNsUI&feature=youtu.be&fbclid=IwAR...