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Thank god I found this site...., My husband & I have been married for 2 years now, and his EX has done everything she can to make life hell for us. At first I was surprised, cause they were over long before I came along. He has 2 children with her, and I have 2 with my EX, and we just had a baby together. His EX is very unstable, she is an alcoholic, and is court ordered to go to AA, and recieve outside counseling for her 'anger issues". My husband got custody of his 13 year old son this summer, so he lives with us,and is now happy & thriving.
I have to tell you guys this...
It's my x's weekend with the kids....but surprise, surprise they are with me.
He told me that he was leaving to go out of town on the 27th and that it was up the the kids if they wanted to go with him or stay in town. They hate the long drive and just figured Dad would be going out 'partying'...when down there. They'd prefer 'checking out Christmas stuff with freinds'...etc than driving 5 hours and sit around a house while Dad goes out with HIS friends...perfectly understandable..so they stayed here with us!
BM asked BF if we could keep SS next weekend, possibly overnight, because she has plans. After all the horror that she caused not even five days ago over this very subject, I'm perplexed as to why she'd ask us to keep him for an additional overnight the following weekend. Usually she would just have her parents watch SS. I haven't heard so much as a word from her since all the trauma she caused over Christmas visitation. Do you think maybe she's taken the last few days to think about what she did and realize that she went about things completely wrong and that things need to change?
Countdown to 'hanging out' with hubbys x and mini-her.... 2 1/2 hours...
I just got out of the shower and have started some SERIOUS PRIMPING.... I'll be looking 'hot'!!
I've been signing & humming 'old macDonald had a farm'......all day. Hubby joins in for the 'cow' & 'pig' part of the song...those are just a couple of his 'pet names' for his charming ex.....
SO we're all in a great mood....looking forward to getting this over with...its' good practice for all the 'socializing' we'll have to do with her this summer.....
Well, I guess the "evil" step-mom had struck again it seems. Or at least that is what my SD has told her father. She called him yesterday to inform him that she was no longer a part of our lives. It's all my fault and in her words I got what I always wanted. It amazes me that someone can put the blame on me when she is the one who has had nothing at all to do with this family since having us thrown in jail and not speaking to anyone in over a year, steps back in one day and expects things to be like nothing every happened.
Most of us have our own personal resolutions, but do you have any resolutions that relate to step or blended family life? Possibly something to do with the ex or the skids? Maybe something that you personally want to work on within yourself that relates? Or perhaps something that you think could use some work between you and your spouse?
I absolutely hate my husband's ex wife. She left him when she found out about his affair with me. She went out and finished her degree and moved away to start a new life. I can't stand her. I think she is unstable. She lets my hubby know how the kids are. Doesn't she see that I don't want them in his life. It has been four years since he spent anytime with them. I sent them there stupid christmas gifts just to please him. And she was wondering why he didn't call them. He doesn't have to call them but she has to be nice to me.
I haven’t been posting much although I’ve been trying to read everyone’s posts…miss a few days on this board and you miss A LOT! Kind of hard to keep up! Well I’m on vacation for a few weeks until I start my new job early next year…also, my husband is “down” and so I’m playing nurse to him so that keeps my hands tied. I don’t know how much I’ll be able to post once I start my new job b/c OBVIUSLY on my old job I had A LOT of time…but I’ll still check in with you all…what can I say, I’m Addicted too!
I have this strange feeling (gut feeling) that my mother in law (MIL) prefers husband's ex wife over me. MIL knows that I despise this woman. Sometimes I ask her if she spoke to ex issues regarding SS she says no then later in the conversation she'll say things that only she would have gotten the information from ex....so I'm thinking huh? Like she lies & hides the fact that she talked to ex. MIL says things like ex likes to come to her house....like I don't or something. What do you think, I hate the idea that my MIL is even talking to this woman!
As anyone who has read my blogs already knows, BM has a real problem accepting SD's life with her dad, me and her baby sister (and new sib on the way!) She is very insecure and jealous and tries to fill her head with nonsense all the time. Typical parental alienation. She hates us, so she wants her daughter to hate us too.
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