I absolutely hate my husband's ex wife. She left him when she found out about his affair with me. She went out and finished her degree and moved away to start a new life. I can't stand her. I think she is unstable. She lets my hubby know how the kids are. Doesn't she see that I don't want them in his life. It has been four years since he spent anytime with them. I sent them there stupid christmas gifts just to please him. And she was wondering why he didn't call them. He doesn't have to call them but she has to be nice to me.