BD just talked to BM about the whole mess and she's now telling her children not to bother about anything I say because I'm a "neat freak".

OK, I admit it! If not wanting the children to smell like cat piss, being angry that the night before a week's vacation to California the BM sends over 2 garbage bags of wet clothes for me to pack, having a problem with all their clothes being washed in one load, their hair smelling like it's not been washed in two weeks, the kids looking like orphaned hillbillies.............I'M A NEAT FREAK!!!!!!

Well G'day there!

First of all, I'd just like to say that I'm VERY new to this and it's good to know that I am not alone. I've been quite frustrated with the BF on a couple of occasions feeling like he doesn't understand my position/what I'm going through. So, it's reassuring to know that there are other people out there going through the same or similar situations and that there are people to talk to!

A month ago...took SS to his football game, husband could not make it so I took him w/my daughter. After the game I was going to take the kids to lunch when SS invited his mother to join us. She made an excuse that she was going to do laundry and ss said you can do that later and wanted her to come join us. I said that's fine. It was a very weird feeling, this is the 1st time sitting w/this woman. We talked about our upcoming trips and that was it. Of course I had many questions to ask her but could not say them in front of the kids. Saving that for later.

My baby will be gone for 2 weeks.
My brother invited my Daughter to go on their vacation to Florida, then hop a cruise to the Bahamas. They left this morning for the two day drive down. We have never been apart for more than 2 days before this.
I feel so childless. We haven't seen any of the skids in over a month. Now mine is gone for two weeks. And in different states.
We have NEVER been this far apart. I don't like the way I feel.