Had lunch w/BM!
A month ago...took SS to his football game, husband could not make it so I took him w/my daughter. After the game I was going to take the kids to lunch when SS invited his mother to join us. She made an excuse that she was going to do laundry and ss said you can do that later and wanted her to come join us. I said that's fine. It was a very weird feeling, this is the 1st time sitting w/this woman. We talked about our upcoming trips and that was it. Of course I had many questions to ask her but could not say them in front of the kids. Saving that for later. She was very different from how she communicates via email. She was polite and nice....I still could not trust her though. I could tell she was very uncomfortable. Just had to share that w/you all. You guys ever had this happen to you?
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I've hung out with biomom on
I've hung out with biomom on occasions... such as times when my husband had to work late and SD would ask me to attend her cheerleading games. I sat with biomom and she was really polite and nice. When my husband and I attend the games its a different story -she always snubs us and acts like she didn't see us walk in. I swear she has a mental disorder. Anyway, we used to get along for the most part. I could call her in regards to the kids schedule and she's always been civil until 2 weekends ago. (See previous blogs for more details.) My guess is she thought she was hurting my husband, but she crossed a line and put me out in a awful way. So since she overheard me call her a B*#@! I think its safe to say we won't be talking anytime in the near future.
yes and I hate it..
Its very uncomfortable. In my case my husband says that BM is the one who feels uncomfortable being with us at dinners but its always me who is put out of my element. I am so sick to death of being "FAKE" and that is exactly what it is. Well as of today I am not being fake anymore.. I am going to be honest with people all the time. I am so over trying to make everyone else happy and then who in the hell is left unhappy (ME). Sunday, my ss has a 6 hour pass and the BM wants to all of us eat dinner at a restaurant together and I flat out said NO. My husband even said awhile later well can't you just eat dinner and I said no. If you want to go spend you Easter with her and your kids go right ahead, I am not doing it.. End of story. Its sickening that I am the one always put out. The last time we did eat dinner together I was the one uncomfortable.. OH my today.. I HATE HER.. And its sad because I really do not use the word hate.. TOday I don't even like my husband or his daughter. Oh and get this I went to get my teeth cleaned and because of all this freakin stress I am under I hate to have about $2000 worth of dental work done because I am gritting and grinding my teeth so much that it has wore all the enmel off my front teeth so I am going in for all this stuff and a night guard.. OMG... I am so sick of stress.
Sorry a little tangent..
Happy
" make sure you tell the people you love most EVERYDAY.. Its important not only for them to know but for you to tell.. Life is to short to be miserable..
How about this then?
Our lovely BM has done all kinds of sh1t for years and one time at a Gym meet she made a point of sitting with us and trying to play nice in front of the kids. however she never said Hi to me or the DH and she and I did not say one word to each other. Had the kids not been present, I would have loved to have torn a stip of that b1tch!
Now THAT's fake!
Cursing:
That's a 1 not a i by the way!
U sound like me
I could care less of being liked by anyone, and I truly do mean that, just don't maliciously do things against me and then expect me to LET you inside my house, you can't have it both ways. One day the BM will realize that they also miss out of GREAT thigs that the other side does when they don't TRY to do right themselves. You can't slap me, apologize and then think you will be sitting at my dinner table. (Extreme) but you know what I mean.
That's ok, I don't eat dinner with my enemies, I would rather eat with Osama Bin Laden, Fidel Castro and Satan himself!
"Be there for the joy. Be there for the tears. Be there for each other."
(Step-Mom the Movie 1998)