recovering from a "pleasant" weekend with SD
I know I sound so petty when I say this, especially since my SD is only 5, but I always feel so relieved when she leaves!
Here are some entertaining events from this weekend;
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I know I sound so petty when I say this, especially since my SD is only 5, but I always feel so relieved when she leaves!
Here are some entertaining events from this weekend;
Last night, I ran a load of Sheldon's school clothes. This morning when I woke up, I put them in the dryer. After I get myself ready this morning and lunches made, it's time to wake up the kids. They all know that they must be fully dressed before they leave their bedroom. Here comes one, and then another, and then another, and hmmmmm, Sheldon is still in his room and it's been 15 minutes now.
BM needed DH to meet her half way tonight to get SS14. As tired as he was from working in the woods all day, he agreed.
He knew I was tired of being on the back burner. He came to me, and conceded it wasn't much of date, but asked if BS8 and I wanted to ride along with him to get SS and have dinner while we were out.
BOTH PEOPLE IN A RELATIONSHIP NEED TO COMMUNICATE & LEARN TO COMPROMISE FOR CERTAIN THINGS.
FOR THOSE FEELING NEGLECTED OR LONELY..AND I SEE ALOT OF THIS ON ST....HERE'S SOMEWAYS TO CHAMGE THAT....
I WOULD SET A SIDE A SPECIAL TIME TO TALK AND MAKE A SCHEDULE FOR DATES AND TIME FOR INTIMACY.
2 DATE NIGHTS A MONTH( HE TAKES YOU WHERE EVER YOU WANT ) IN EXCHANGE FOR GOURMET( NO INTERRUPTIONS) SEX 2 X A MONTH.(FAIR DEAL)
MOST MEN WOULD PREFER TO HAVE SEX AS OFTEN AS HE CAN GET IT.
Hello everyone,
Highest regards to all the step parents out there. This is one of the most difficult jobs in my book.
Ok, new to this so bare with me. Need to vent and figured this is the best place to...with like minded people.( I hope I'm welcomed)
I would just like to say thank-you very much for your thoughts and prayers.
Over the last month I have been slowly sifting through Dani’s personal items and came across her Step Talk log in details which prompted me to log on. At the time I wasn’t going to share about her passing I just wanted to read her blogs so I could get a better understanding of what she was thinking and feeling and what key actions I missed that lead her to think she had no other way out.
After months of suggesting she is leaving, BM has her lease up end of February. She sat down with SS5/6 today to explain she is leaving the state! Yay for us, but I know it will be hard on the boys. She said she will try to visit every 2-3 months. They just got used to having regular twice a month visits, even though she cancelled once this month and once in December.
This is no big deal really, but it just aggravates the crap out of me today. First of all, I love them all, I really, really do, but being inside with four cabin-fevered kids has worn my patience to the breaking point. I fixed a great lunch. We had all kinds of finger food - bagel bites, taquitos, mini chimis - we pretty much ate ourselves sick. Not one hour after lunch, my daughter comes to me wanting a snack. no, No, NO!!
On January 1, my DH and I had a LONG talk about some issues in our marriage, related to his kids. It's a month later, and nothing has changed.
I come here to vent so I do not say things to my skids that will scar them. I love them and want the best for them but I am not their mother as they have pointed out so many times and I do not want to be their mother. DH and I have 4 other children and we love them very much and I know DH loves his oldest 2 boys very much also, but we are both tired of the chaos they create.