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let me explain because i know you drunk crazy ladies will have MANY (not yelling) smart ass replies! lol 
Okay, I am about to have an anxiety attack…tomorrow there is supposed to be a blizzard and of course they have closed the schools, FH is off work too and to make matters worst my supervisor says that our office is closed as well. So I am absolutely dreading this 5 day weekend (Monday is a holiday too) this means I will be stuck in the house with the skids for 5 days. I don’t believe I can do it, the mere thought of it give me palpitations. It really sucks that their worthless, do nothing incubator of a BM can’t get them for one measly weekend when we have them EVERY STINKING DAY.
O.K. - so I was on the phone with DH trying to have a conversation with him and SD13 is in the back ground going mocking me the whole time -"HI< MY NAME IS ****** AND I'M FAT AND I'M BORED AND I DON'T GO TO THE GYM ANY MORE AND I'M FAT" - so I hung up on him. WTF - What is the matter with teenage girls that they feel they can treat you like shit?!?!?!? By the way I have been in this relationship for 6 years and have done everything plus some for these kids!@!!!! When did I become the wicked witch of the west?!
Last night was rough DH and I got into a heated discussion regarding the placement plan, CS, tax deductions and a bunch of other things stepkid related. How it started - DH brought up letting BM have the tax deduction for SS12. We normally claim him on our taxes and BM claims SS8 on hers. So she would be claiming both SSons on her taxes.
This upset me and I was trying to explain my feelings to DH but he wasn’t listening. DH’s exact words were “it’s a one time thing to help her out.” When he uttered those words I lost it. The conversation went something like this:
since our blogs are getting so long these days, and i love to laugh and exchange back and forth with my fellow church going drunk dirty bitches....it seems that if there is a new post on the second...or third page, when i got to the second page, there are no longer the red "new" notifications....the i have to read through all the bs to get to the good stuff i actually care about.
is this just my computer?
During DH & BMs phone conversation last night, BM asked DH about BM flying SD15 up over Spring Break next month. And also stated that BM was going to also fly SD15s bf up to. DH & I had already discussed this flying thing and decided that with everything that SD15 has been through & done since she's been here, we are not allowing her to fly alone. And definitely not over Spring Break when that is not an agreed upon visit in the court order. And definitely not alone with SD15s bf. Well instead of DH telling BM this, he just says I'll let ya know.
SD15 got invited to a sleepover birthday party at a hotel room this Saturday. DH & I told SD15 no. Well SD15 wasn't happy with that and told BM about it, who is 1100 miles away and has no say in these type of decisions anymore since we have custody of SD15. Well BM called DH last night and started trying to convince DH into changing his mind about letting SD15 go. DH told BM it would be different if this girl's parents were not alcoholics & would be there the entire time. But since we can't guarantee that would happen, our answer is no.
Don't you guys find it funny how when ONE person comes on here and gets pissed off WE are all the crazy ones?? I feel like I'm talking to myself when I was an angry teenager. I personally have never had ANYONE (i'm yelling) "gang up" on me. Everyone has given me great advice and exchanged witty banter. I just thought that was a little ironic..
I have not seen StepTalk hoppin this much in a while. Or maybe it is that I have not been on as much in the past 6mos due to work issues.
I getting some great Stalker time in today with the 4-6ft snow drifts in front of the front and back doors to our house. I have to say that even though the Skid flunking out of Military School has put some strain on the Rags family home life it is good to have a healthy 17yo to work the shovel.
Go freeze your ass of for a few more hours Skid! }:)
in November..
BM has been dodging them, hanging up on them and refused to get SS assesed by this group of people.
Today we find out that BM was requesting SS's bathroom habits from the teacher and the teacher let us know that she thinks it's because BM is going to tell the Psychologist that the reason why SS's behavior is the way it is/SS reverting back to soiling himself etc is because of DH and I- and she showed the teacher a letter from the psychologist today stating that he's been to the facility although we don't know if he was actually seen or not-