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Okay this is what’s on my mind. This is our weekend with skids. Hubby is usually off on weekend but he works this Sunday. Now I used to watch them with out a problem when he had to work even- when my SD10 would go back home telling BM that I was mean and always yelling at them. Of course hubby was not there but every time that BM would call to Bitch him out he would always say “she is not like that....” Sd10 is just tells you what you want to hear! Sd8 would always tell BM that it was not true. That I was super nice and fun.
I know a lot of judges are not with it in Family Law on seeing things right. But, ours did. We thought for sure we would lose custody of SD16 last summer, and prepared for it. However, judge saw that the permissive parenting BM was doing was causing SD to not reach her potential, so kept PC w/DH. Thank goodness she did.
SD was angry at first, but has settled, set goals for school and for technincal school after HS. SD has FINALLY made peace w/fact that she CAN love both parents and not feel like betrayal to her BM.
Listen up girls. I got thrown a curveball for VD this year. Today is my Bday, and Sunday is VD. Guess what, last night when on the phone with BM telling her about the snow she asked me if we were keeping SD all weekend. I kindave pulled back and thought "WTF, this lady knows this is MY weekend". I didn't really answer her. When I hung up I told DH what she had suggested.
So BioDad has decided that he will take BS for Winter Break next week. He will be picking him up this evening. The last time he spent time with him was sometime in December. This is the longest I will be without my baby, who is 7. I feel weird for letting him go. I am worried and just being an overprotective mamabear.
Also, BS doesn't really want to go. And I know why. His Wii, TV, toys are all here. He doesn't have that stuff at BioDad's house. But I want them to spend time together. Plus I can use the break.
Well, he was gone for my birthday and his birthday and now he's home Valentines, usually returns skids on Sunday night, but they don't have school Monday, SO. He says we can go out for Valentines Day, "we can take the kids with us." NO. WTF? I have NO desire to go to dinner with them in tow - what at Chuckie Cheese's for Valentines. He is, as usual, clueless. So now I feel guilty because I want him to take them back on Sunday so we can have a NORMAL Valentines ON Valentines. I know he doesn't see them much, I know, but I work all week, now, he says oh, we'll just go another night.
So my FH is a cook, who prides himself on his amazing cooking skills (not without good reason, as the current mass of my @ss will attest). He has a daughter who is a finicky eater, and regularly drives him to distraction. He tries to make things she'll eat, and when he tries new things he ends up doing an impressive vaudeville routine to get her to eat (all that's missing is the top hat and cane, I swear!) He asks me to help with this; my answer is, stop catering to her wants. He says, but if I don't she won't eat anything.
This is so freakin' hilarious! A change from my normal rants about my skids. Almost a week ago the youngest SS living with us come down stairs crying because he clogged the toilet. No problem, stuff like that happens. We went to the local hardware store bought some drano and a auger. None of it worked! My hubby has been working on the toilet for the past couple of days hoping whatever is clogged will come free. Tonight we just mention to the boys that we are going tomorrow to buy a wax seal so we can pull the toilet off and fix the clog for good.
Loca Grande has invited Princess's boyfriend to lunch on Saturday while the skids are there this weekend. Not normally a problem if he visits a short time, BUT THEY BROKE UP TWO WEEKS AGO! (Yelling for emphasis- not sure why everyone seems to be justifying caps today, but I thought I'd chime in...)
When we questioned Princess about this, she says its because Loca Grande misses him- let's call him Stepping Stone. Loca Grande wants them to get back together.
I know most of you post to get some responses and different view points from people but this is not one of those posts. I truly just need to vent because my anger is so great right now that anythign that would be said won't even be heard so please bear with me and accept my apology ahead of time but I truly am at the point that I fucking HATE my SD AND the way her mom treats her above all of the other kids. I swear to you if Jesus came down from the cross and wanted to save my wife and her entire family from damnation she would put him on hold if this child needed a spoon to eat.
I think BM thinks that My DH is Donald Trump. She sent an e mail to DH. He only communicates via e mail because she is so verbally abusive. Anyway she said its been several years and I want your paychech stub. The agreement does not say he has to give pay check so he refused.
We went to see a lawyer who took at look at pay check and advised we will increase 100 a month so we ofered her 100 a month.first she took it and then sent an e mail a few days later ( talk about schizo) she is sure that he has more money that he is saying. So off to court we go.
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