Now that SKID is visiting again, I am irritated because:
Now that SKID (SD9) is visiting again, I am irritated because:
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Now that SKID (SD9) is visiting again, I am irritated because:
I know that this question has been posed before but how does one get over the resentment that comes from years of being on an emotional rollercoaster caused by your DH? (you can refer back to my previous blogs, there is only a couple)
DH and I, over the last couple of years have gone to numerous counseling sessions. He could always "talk the talk" but when it came time to implement any strategies, he failed miserably. It wasn't until I told him in March that I had an exit plan in place that he finally and truly stepped up to the plate.
I have a labradoodle that is my baby (I dont have any kids). He is a weak spot for me because I do treat him like a child. When I got him groomed the last time, they had to shave his face because there were too many mats. So my nickname poodleface was accurate because once they cut all of his face hair off, he looks just like a poodle. Anyway, Today DH comes home and gives me a card and a welcome sign with a black poodle on it (that looks exactly like our dog). I couldnt even get through the card before I started crying and left the room. DH followed me and held me while I cried.
Loghead is staying at my parent's house this week for training for his new school district. Their house is only 20 minutes from the conference, instead of our 2 hours. It's in the little town where we used to live, so he was excited to be there and see old friends and eat and shop at his favorite places.
Sooo...my fiance has 2 boys..ages 8 and 10 that are staying with us for the summer. He loves them to death as he should, but I just HATE having them around! The 10 year old isn't that bad..but the 8 year old throws fits, is very obese and eats junk all day every day and they only want to play video games. They are lazy, lazy, and did I mention lazy? Before they lived w us, I really enjoyed doin the house wife things..cooking, cleaning, rearranging the house etc. Now that they're here, I don't want to do anything around the house or cook or be very intimate w my fiance. HELP!!
I got a text from the x-mother in law and a voice message telling me and him that i was cuban and therefore a jealous and a woman who "controls" everything. Thought it was funny, but then I was thinking why the "f" am I dealing with these stupid people who feel that they can call and text and leave message to people they don't know.
What is this you are taking liberties with me? I don't think so...
Does anyone else deal with this crap? I have only been in this relationship for 9 months I don;t think I need this type of commincatiion and degradtion.
Its been great to have no baby mama drama for the last six months ever since BM finally got her BF to marry her after 12 years of being divorced from DH. She met her BF in the church after his wifey died & left him with 6 kids. I find it so funny that its taken all these years for them to finally tie the knot. Its really funny that they have been living together before the wedding with some of the kids even tho BM made it crystal clear to us that we were the worst people on earth when we lived together before we got married many years ago.
Do you think that a BM is worse than a BF (bio-father) in respect to their ability to separate emotional from reality. I have found that BM tend to want and want and want, while BF tend to give and give and give. This is not fair nor equal treatment, typically BF is in far worse condition that BM. BM can usually control finances and other situation that reduce stress on the relationship with kids.
What is your opinion or take on this? Very interested...
skids report cards came thru this am, its parent/teacher conference night tonight but bf wont be home to read b4 he goes in so pretty much had to relay the gist over the phone so he wasn't going in blind.
SS10. fucking genius who got the highest mark in school for computer tech and art, higher than year sevens. awesome, no probs. teacher says he suspects mild auspergers but fuck whatever. so he cant be totally social yet...don't strap autism crap on him yet he might be a late bloomer, ill give him another year before i send him for testing. BF and me on same page with this.
On Tuesday of last week, my two SDs where in the back of the vehicle, fighting over a hat. SD11 took SD6 hat and tore it apart, she started to scream and cry. I stopped the vehicle and took SD11 hat off her head and threw it in the trash. Got back in the car and started driving. SD11 went into a complete RAGE. Screaming and yelling, kicking the back of the seat and hitting her fist on the ceiling of the car. Then, as if that wasn't out of control...she CHOKE SD6 with such angry and force that SD6 had marks on her neck after 15 minutes.