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Been a long time...but the issues are still the same :(

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Submitted by zenjetset on Fri, 01/21/2011 - 4:59pm

I haven't been on Steptalk for a while now. I have been really really busy with work, work and everything else. You know...a womans life never ends! Wink

Anywho, the issues are the same, except the children are getting older and I for one am having a hard time dealing with all the X's manipulation and attempts at creating chaos.

Whose responsiblity is it really?

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Submitted by zenjetset on Wed, 11/24/2010 - 10:15am

FDH is in the beginning stages of filing for modification of CS and parenting time. The atty has been waiting for the financial documentation to back-up what he (I) stated in the financial affidivt.

Today is my day off, but I got up at 7:30am and started scanning and emailing the documents to the atty. I've spent 4 hours on this today so far and I just called FDH to ask him to please find 3 items when he got home today. His reply...

Update on life...

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Submitted by zenjetset on Tue, 11/23/2010 - 11:03am

It's been a while that I have blogged, but I have comment here and there as I have time. Though time for me is something more like a commodity these days.

On the work and personal front everything is fabulous. Our new house is coming along with paint and furniture. My job is well a job hopefully leading to something more and my business is booming slowly and steady.

The BM and Skids...hmmmm, things are well interesting. I'll start with BM because she is the most entertaining.

Since my last blog...

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Submitted by zenjetset on Wed, 11/03/2010 - 2:24pm

My last blog was a disgrace to my iPhone posting capabilities. lol lots of typos...sorry but I was running from work to the supermarket to get a cake and card for SD7 bday celebration dinner that DH simply could not do - again for HIS daughters. I was also stuck with the responsibility for SD11 dinner celebration.

Disappointed...2nd skids bday and I'm stuck...

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Submitted by zenjetset on Sat, 10/30/2010 - 9:57pm

Both DH and I worked today - he from 8-2:30 me from 8-6pm. I called him at about 4pm to see if he had the folding chair (borrowed from his work) he said "no, didn't have time was a very bust day. When I got home dad was out the door. His dad cares for the skids when we are working on Saturdays. I said "I gotta go". He said " I didn't have time to get a card either" I said I gotta call you back.

Really, I'm not allowed to use my cell phone during work, however I user it as an excuse because I was getting upset at DH. He understood we hung up in short manner.

Hehehehe! Life is good....

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Submitted by zenjetset on Thu, 10/28/2010 - 9:18am

Hello everyone! Thought I would share something funny...since I've been laughing since 7:43am!!!

As you know BM has tormented DH and I with text messages from 6:30am until the cows come home for several months. We cleverly put a sudden end to it all one morning at 6:05am by simply adding AT&T smart limits to DH number. Prior to doing this we sent a text from DH phone to BM stating that she should no longer text him because he will only reply to EMAIL and he included a new gmail address we specifically set up for communication with narcissist BM.

GOTTA LOVE IT!!!

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Submitted by zenjetset on Thu, 10/21/2010 - 6:06pm

So, things have been going pretty terrific with me. FDH is getting on track with things all on his own. We are thriving and it's such an awesome feeling to have the stars and moon aligned once again (hopefully I just didn't jinks myself).

So the lastest is that we got SmartLimits and blocked the narcissist x see you next tuesday from FH phone!!! No more texts, no more voice messages, no more calls harrassing him, insulting me at 6:30am until 11pm++.

So excited. Life is good. Off to drink vino!!

Life changes...

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Submitted by zenjetset on Wed, 10/20/2010 - 8:31am

Happy Wednesday! I've not been on ST in a couple of weeks mainly because I've been busy with my new PT job that has FT hours and have also been running my small business. Which I'm not complaining at all about because honestly I've been focused on ME (bold double underline ME!!). And...because I have informed my FH that he is to deal exclusively with his crap of an xwife and rude kids, that I had enough of the abuse from all three (bm, two daughters). I told him I would be here to support him and OUR relationship and would do anything for US. Suddenedly, my life became much simpler!

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