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so this girl treats dh as if he is her property and it irritates me!! for instance, at his family gatherings, when she dropped of sd, she gets out of the car walks to the back yard screaming his name looking for him (we were at a after party if you will for a baby's baptism) and hollerd at him infront of his ENTIRE family about something that could have been discussed quietly...i was preg for our first child at the time so i just let if slide and hoped that he would grow a pair and set her straight and he just told her something to shut up and walked off and she left.
DH and I are expecting twins in the late fall. I'm really excited, especialy considering all we've been through to have kids. But the closer we get to the twins coming, the more anxious I get for ss25 to move out of our house.
It seems like everyone goes to court for CS adjustments and I was just wondering how/why? We've requested at least three times to have DH's child support order lowered since he's been unemployed. We send the request directly to the person assigned to his case and they review it. They sent us something on accident that was supposed to go to BM. It basically said "if you would like to continue this request for adjustment, please send the following documents.
It is still hard to swallow the fact that my big, strong, strong willed, honest husband can turn into a sniveling, lying little turd just so he does not have to parent his kid. ARRRGGG.
I love my DH to death, but it turns me off SOOOO bad to see him turn into “that guy”!
SS has found the girl of his dreams. She is 16 with a pierced nose, dirty looking and has a tattoo on her back. I know she has a tattoo because she is overweight and her shirt did not go all the way down her back and make it to her jeans. Oh, and she has no curfew. Her mom must be a winner.
Hello EVERYONE! I havent been on here in sooo long. Ive been so busy- kids, work, baby-momma drama! but I just want to say, I missed being on here. I started reading some posts- some new people, some veterans, and this is the best site ever! I always leave this site feeling a little less alone in this world! I really have no drama, i just wanted to tell everyone how amazing you make this site with all of your commentary! I will be on more often ( shame on me for ever leaving! not that anyone missed me!), and have a wonderful day!
so this is my first post and it will be long but i promis very interesting...so bm and dh were in an on/off again relationship for about 6 years...during that time period they had their daughter now 10. during one of their "off agains" she became preg with another child from another man. dh went back to her "for the sake of his dd". the father of the second child went to prison, again...so dh became "dad" to this child also. things did not work out, dh left again and for good this time and we met and began seeing each other about 6 months after their split.
Just thought I'd give a short update. Mr. Kate/BF and I are 'on hiatus or whatever' at the moment, meaning I moved out. A friend of mine needed a sublet as she is moving out of state at the end of the month, so I was pretty fortunate.
Mr. Kate and I specifically discussed that we are allowed to see other people ( I brought that up), though he said that he wouldn't because he loves me. I'm kind of curious to see if that actually happens. We live in a small town (where Mr. Kate grew up) and between that and our circle of gossipy acquaintances, I'm sure I'll find out if he does.
Robert Heinlein said "Never try to teach a pig to sing. It wastes your time and annoys the pig."
This can be interpreted to mean that there's no point in trying to carry on an interaction that's impossible - there's nothing to be gained on either side.
Not that I care if I annoy the pig - but I don't care to waste my time trying to discourse rationally with anyone who is in fact, at the end of the day, not constrained by the bounds of rationality, be it my SS, or another poster on this forum.
Anybody with me? (grin)
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I love this ad. First of all, it has a great message. But more than that, these kids are great dancers. That might not hit you right off, because what they're doing is so *not* mainstream dancing of any style. And since they do it so well, you slip into thinking that they're really controlled by the strings. When you really think about the fact that no, they're not flopping around at the end of those strings, they're actually totally in control and creating a fantastic *illusion* of that, you have to be impressed....
I’m very sorry to do this but I’m highly offended at one poster and her constant put down responses and snide remarks.
Although I do believe some of her advice is quite good BUT her delivery is appalling.
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