It is still hard to swallow the fact that my big, strong, strong willed, honest husband can turn into a sniveling, lying little turd just so he does not have to parent his kid. ARRRGGG.

I love my DH to death, but it turns me off SOOOO bad to see him turn into “that guy”!

SS has found the girl of his dreams. She is 16 with a pierced nose, dirty looking and has a tattoo on her back. I know she has a tattoo because she is overweight and her shirt did not go all the way down her back and make it to her jeans. Oh, and she has no curfew. Her mom must be a winner.

He met her about 4 weeks ago and they have been joined at the hip since then. DH has been on vacation for the last two weeks and they have hung out at our house all day, everyday, since DH has been off. (They are not allowed at each others house without a parent there) (Even thou I know SS has broken that rule)

Anyway, I get a text message form DH, yesterday, that said…”I told son that you and I are going out so they have to leave until later, please play along. WTF!!??

First off, I am not going to lie to the boy if it comes up. Pet peeve of mine. I hate liars!!

Second, DH needs to dig his balls out of SS’s pocket and tell him the GF is allowed over a few times a week and that is it. Is he going to lie to him everyday to keep them away?

I had no problem telling my son that his GF could come over a few times a week and he can go to her house a few times a week. But that is it. No acting like a married couple at 16 and 17 years old. And my son grumbled a bit and then accepted it. SS would accept it also, but DH turns into such a puss that he won’t lay down too many laws, or SS might just get mad. SO WHAT!!! GRRRRRR

I have come along way, and I have learned a lot over the course of 10 years dealing with the step mess. This is the one main thing left that bothers me. Losing respect for my DH when I see him act like that. I hate it!