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I am at a loss. I don't know what to do anymore. Everyone always told me that me and fiance were rushing into things by getting engaged and what not. Now I believe them. It wasn't until recently when I've began to pick up on things he does which I have never noticed before. (we have been together for 2years)
Every second thursday that horrible bitch gets paid, it makes me sick to my stomach. She gets $200 every second week i absolutely hate it because the useless bitch lives with her parents and they do everything for the kids anyway, they pay for everything. It just makes me furious that she feels that she deserves payment. Then she sends the kids to us asking DH to pay for stuff. We have the kids a lot and they cost us a fortune too. Where is my Child support for driving them around?? feeding them??
OK - FDH and BM are trying to work out the yearly planner/calander for next year.. so this will include which week the kids stay during the holidays and which holidays they are going to plan for etc.
so of course BM gots all the good weeks last year and we get all the left over ones. But this year FDH has finally put his foot down and said NO we should actually we should take turns each year as it is only fair.
Last night i was talking to DH, i been holding back from asking him a question i been wanting to ask him since we started dating. Yesturday i finally got the guts to ask.
"DH if BM never left you, would you still be with her today?"
DH response was,
"Yea she was the one that left, i would have never left her because of the kids, even though we fought and really didn't get along,i would of stuck by her side for the kids."
It's been 3 weeks since SS19 moved in with us. We have a 15 months girl, I work full time and DH work from home, taking care of BD. He travel about twice a month. When he is out, we drop BD at daycare.
SS will help out when we ask, he follow the rules in general. He is currently looking for job, showing no interest in school or military. We understand that forcing him to anything will result resentment.
So I come home from a busy day of school and driving home in the 110 degree weather and what do I find?? My laoptop in my SD's bedroom. My laptop is off limits. There is a computer in the living room but she doesn't like to use that one because it's slow. DUH! It's slow because you download all kinds of crap on it and don't take care of anything! But besides the fact that she knows that she is not aloud to use my computer she is grounded!! This is how the conversation went
So, BM tells FDH and mediator that teens won't see dad unless he comes back to mother (gone two years).
Teens say this because BM told them they have to get him back for her.
I know that this is a website to vent on... about step kids and So's
but sometimes its nice to see something on here other then a bunch of bitching sparents...
so I thought you guys would get a kick out of an update on how potty training my puppy is going...
those of you who know a little bit about my background know how i got the puppy and that she is a gift from GOD to help me thru SO & I's breakup.
Okay...I'm a little big peeved and need you all to tell me if I'm being ridiculous?
Our wedding is planned for next September. We both spoke to our parents and both sides plan to help us with a total of about $4,000 each. We were both really pumped about that because it was more than we were expecting.
I'm sad to say I'm talking about my biological family here and not steps.
My daughter 19 lives with my mom and happens to have a 3 year old child.(She had him young)
My daughter has been trying to help out around the house while holding down a job and going to college. I know my daughter and I know she's not perfect and I'm sure she shoulders some of the burden of the argument but my mom is trying to control her and I just can't seem to do anything about it.
My mom wanted her to get a job, she gets one and now my mom says she's not home enough and needs to quit.