I am at a loss. I don't know what to do anymore. Everyone always told me that me and fiance were rushing into things by getting engaged and what not. Now I believe them. It wasn't until recently when I've began to pick up on things he does which I have never noticed before. (we have been together for 2years)

Recently my SS3 has been waking up around the same time every morning like between 2 and 4am. Screaming and crying for daddy. So daddy wakes up and takes him to the livingroom to cuddle and watch cartoons until SS calms down, while I make him a sippycup of milk. after a cartoon or two we put him back to sleep and usually he just falls back asleep for 3 or so more hours. But I was just wondering if there was anything else we could do to keep him from waking up screaming? We think hes having nightmares because when he wakes up crying he says hes scared.

When I first met my fionce he was still on good terms with the BM (aside from her resenting him for not taking her back and choosing me)But once he moved out of her parents house and into the house he bought to live with me, he has hated her and they are not on speaking terms. He has led me to believe that her hate for me wasn't as simple as her just being the ex but more like her being the psycho ex. Any time I have said anything positive about her (which wasn't often) he would flip out and state that she will never change, that shes going to come after him someday.