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motherof2's picture

:jawdrop: :jawdrop: So I email BM out of sheer desperation for a dramaless life. I let her know that me and my ex are best of friends and work well with the kids. Can we just put all this anger behind us for the kids sake and get along. Lets go against all odds and go for coffee. Well,I just got a response back of screw the coffee..how about some martinis, call me. So I did..she said she couldnt take the stress either, and would love to see this work. She said she is happy that her ex found someone and is happy and doesn't want all this crap between us going on either.

O/T: Related to famous peope, oh my!

SteppingUp's picture

My fiance's brother is a hopefully-soon-to-be-famous musician (very popular in Nashville but hasn't signed a contract yet) and we just found out proposed to his singer/girlfriend (who DOES have an album out) and they will get married next summer!

Wish I could say names so I could suggest their music to people because they are AWESOME people and talented musicians...but that would both give me away (as I will soon have the same last name as him) and they haven't announced it yet either. But it's exciting!

Update to BM's sister is now children's SM...

N8tiveButt3rfly's picture

I would like to start off by thanking everybody who gave feedback to my earlier post. There were comments that made me cry... but that's good a thing because right now I'm trying to fix some pretty BIG messes, some that I have made and others that I won't take responsibility for as I had no control (XDH with sister one I could not have controlled)...

Wrote a can we start fresh email to BM

motherof2's picture

SOOOO....I know most of you will say, r u crazy??? I wrote an email to her yesterday requesting that we can start new for the kids sake. I said that me and my ex get along great and it makes it easier for my kids and us. I explained that I am not trying to replace her, and that her kids love her, but I would like to be someone else in there life that loves them. THE BITCH NEVER RESPONDED!!! I am not a home wrecker, she was remarried for 2 years before I met me FDH. So what is her problem? Do I send anything else or blow this in a balloon and let it go? :?

Please Advise!! Quickly.....

lisa510's picture

So, if you've read any of my recent blogs, you know the skids, DH and I had a "talk" Saturday night about the skids not doing any chores or even cleaning their rooms. DH explained I would be respected since I pay the bills in the house to help maintain them. SS22 doesn't seem to hold a grudge, although his opinion is that since he's lived here for 8 years, it's his home; he can do what he wants - no chores.

Hey Dawn and Admin…

Moon Child Step Mom's picture

Good morning ladies!!!
Once again, thank you SO much for this place and all of the good that it brings to so many struggling peoples lives! Have you guys noticed a spam attack on here lately..? Some weird posts about financial advice and odd news items… just making sure the site isn’t being “hacked” by jerks. I don’t know one thing about websites, but just wanted to send a heads up…

Mornin' Mornin' Mornin' all!!!

Being proven right can be bittersweet

StepMadre's picture

Okay, so as much as I love and care about my skids, I, more than anyone in their lives, see their problems and challenges more clearly than H and BM, because I have an outsiders perspective, but at the same time, I am not an outsider because they are my kids too and I am highly involved and intertwined with their lives.

So Here We Sit On the Bench Outside

Francesca's picture

Drinking a beer and eating donuts... After that horrible nonsense with the mediator and I grilled FDH completely (BBQ on both sides) about BM. He's wearing the vest I bought him at the resale shop with tag still on it and says can I throw you a birthday party? So, ABBY, whoever you are, we're all keepers and so are they.

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