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It shouldn't be this hard

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Quick background: my DS17 does not live with me and DH, but my DS19 does. DH's kids both left; didn't want to follow rules or cope with "new" family. Neither of us asked them to leave; they left.

So yesterday my DS17 is with us and wanted me take him to a park; but his brother was going to the same place within an hour. So I told DS to wait.

Almost There.....but NO!!!

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Last week i had a talk with DH about SS22 having his girlfriend over weekend after weekend. He finally got the balls to tell his son that having his gf here every weekend to play house was really getting old.

I was really proud of him for doing this. GUESS WHAT!!! SHE'S BACK!! WTF!!!

Why do these people think it's okay to use our home as a motel. Being that my DH is a pushover, I highly doubt he's gonna say anything.

I'm soooooo pissed off right now!!!

Mentally Checked out

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Background
married DH and moved into his house with his kids
skids don't have any relationship with me
skids do nothing in the house
my child doesn't have his own bedroom
DH argues for hours about everything
I walk on pins n needles in the house
I pay more than half the bills

I'm so tired of feeling like an outsider. I can't live with him anymore. The house is always a mess. He fights about everything; it's been almost a year and I still don't feel like I have the back up I need.

DH pulls back!!!

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So since SS22 decided he wants to have a bank account opened to SAVE his money (which he hasn't done on his own) DH says "whatever, you have no insurance as of the sixteenth of this month."

I can't wait to see if he follows through! SS and DH argued about this issue. We are trying to set this young man up for success when he graduates. I am praying he'll quickly move out after college.

Everyone who knows a 22 year old man lives here thinks it's weird == except DH!!!

I was out dodging bullets in the military when i was 22 === no where near my home!!!

DH gets it?????

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Okay, so I got a job to get me out of this house! I'm tired, but I think it was a good decision.

Now I'm not home to clean the laundry room, let the dogs out, keep the kitchen clean, and bitch about all the other crap that bothers me about sharing a house with piggish ungrateful skids.

Yesterday, DH came home an nearly had a coronary. First he argues with SS22 about SS putting money aside to prepare him to move out after college next May.

Money issues

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So, I new the day would come when we argued about money. It's my fault. Lately, I've been feeling like I'm getting the shaft. I get a retirement check and up to a week ago, I stayed home.

Before I married DH, I has my check as direct deposit into my own account. My boys also have an account in the same bank and I can easily manage their money and help them with money if need be.

BM is F@cking idiot!!

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This is my first post about my DH's ex. For the most part, I don't think about her at all. But she's a real tool!!

BACKGROUND: I moved in with DH. Only SS22lived with him at the time. We married and within the next month, his daughter moved in too.

SD16 was living with BM until BM's live-in BF invited SD16 to participate in oral sex (he sent her a text). He's a cop.

Now I live with both skids! Whatever.

DH still pays BM child support; this has been since June.

Christmas Arrangements

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This is my Christmas with my biological boys (19 and 16). My DH and I have only been married since May 2010. We live with my skids (SS2, SD16). My boys live with their dad.

My DH ALWAYS spends Christmas with his family, two hours from where we live. So this Christmas, he wants my boys and I to spend Christmas with his family. My younger son, has been around the big family once; my older son has never been around any of the family.

Is Counseling Gonna Work?

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Yesterday was our second counseling session. My DH, who said he didn't care to go, used up the entire hour.

At the first counseling session he said SS22 wasn't gonna be leaving the house for another whole year. Well, I thought upon graduating from college (June2011) he's be gone. So after counseling I asked DH why SS is gonna be hanging around until next FALL? He blew up saying I wanted to throw the kid out, blah, blah, blah!!!

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