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Well, it’s time for a little update on the adult loser step kids in my life.
I’ll start with a happy note! The SS34 (35 next month) did indeed move out to his own place the 1st of November!!! (only a month late) I haven’t been there, but I hear it’s a pit. He doesn’t really seem to mind too much and that is good because I made it clear that he’s not moving back with us if things fall apart or he doesn’t pay his bills. I think he’s finally starting to realize that it is only a stepping-stone to better things; or he pays lip service to that idea pretty well.
I dont know what to do. I have told you before that my skids have lied about me lied to me about other people and then told me they didnt like me never had and never will. :? With all that I havent opened my pocket book to them dont take them to do fun stuff, just thought if you dont like me why the HELL am I going to spend MY money on your butts. Me and my DH have talked before about me not wanting to do a whole lot with them cause of the actions that they have had, he agreed which was a shock those are his little girls!
Do you ever get to the point that you're just mentally exahsted with dealing with a person. I have been dealing with my BF's jelous ex-wife for almost a year now, and it just keeps going. It's like the annoying little fly that regardless of how many times you swat at it, it just comes back.
Some brief background: My dad had an affair with (now) SM when I was in high school. Parents split. Mom would still take my dad back in a heartbeat...is still hurt and has never really moved on. Dad and SM are now married and incredibly happy. She is a part of my life now. It's been 12 YEARS since the divorce. 3 years ago, my sister got married and there were some bad words exchanged between my mom and SM's best friend. It caused a lot of tears that night for both my mom and my SM.
It seems like every three or four months or so, we are having to remind MIL that she is the mother and not the wife. I have no idea what make s her think that she can make decisions that impact my household without my consent, but it ain't happening.
SO has decided to go to the hearing. But I need to minimize my stress right now since I just had an embryo transfer.
The hearing is in front of a "juvenile committee" which serves as an alternative to municipal court for kids with no prior offenses. SS16 was picked up trespassing at 4AM in the next town. In addition he's been having all kinds of attitude and behavior problems over the last 6 to 8 months.
SO is going to tell the committee that SO believes SS has a problem and needs some kind of program to straighten him out, either community service, counseling, or both.
I admit I bribed the boys to say they wanted new stockings! I told them I would buy them a pop! It worked! I get to buy new ones for each boy! I came out of their room and dh looked at me and said you just bribed them didn't you? I looked at him and said yes with my head hung and he started laughing and said ok you brat! LMAO. BUT the point it I get new stockings! }:) }:)
Weekend started bad. Ss15 dropped his can of pop and it poked a hole in it and instead of throwing it away he opens the car door and gets in the back seat with it spraying every where! :? Dh yelled at him to get it out but it was all over the car! But instead of making him clean it dh just let it go. I was mad and said something but still it wasn't cleaned. I will make dh do it!
I'm honestly so sick of this shit! You know all because of his ex's stupid swap we were off schedule an entire friggin month...and now my ex needs a swap in a cpl wknds...so we're back to no breaks again-maybe we can resume normalcy in January?
I love my kids-and he loves his-but damn it-we need a break and some time to ourselves!
On what planet does a healthy 5 year old boy wear a size 2T?
This is the second weekend that SS has come to our home wearing a size 2T. He's 5 years old and in a size 5! The first time this happend, I had picked him up from school and the poor kid looked like he could barely breathe. SD was also wearing a shirt that was 3 sizes too small (she's in a 9, but was wearing a 6). FH complained to BM about it, and she claimed that she was "so busy" that she didn't notice. Er, I know SS. He doesn't get dressed by himself. She would have known.
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