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Weekend with skids and bm up to something!

purpledaisies's picture

Weekend started bad. Ss15 dropped his can of pop and it poked a hole in it and instead of throwing it away he opens the car door and gets in the back seat with it spraying every where! :? Dh yelled at him to get it out but it was all over the car! But instead of making him clean it dh just let it go. I was mad and said something but still it wasn't cleaned. I will make dh do it!

Then on Fir. night while I was at work bm texted dh and wanted to know if he was up at midnight!!! What why would he up and if he is it means he is having some fun! Jeez! dh ignored her. But it must not have been important as that all she texted which makes me think there was something else that she wanted to talk to dh about. Yep I did think she is up to trying to get dh back yet again. She has done this before. So on sat bm called to tell dh that she saw a show that was interesting and wanted to share! He told her that He would let purpledaisies know as that is her fav show! LOL

I am so upset with her right now I know why she called and why she did what she did. Why would she even think she has a prayer with dh? He has made it very clear that he doesn't want anything to do with her but she keeps trying to talk to him about her life and other things along with small talk. :sick:

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SillyGilly's picture

Maybe for xmas you should give her something for a hobby, like some yarn and she can start knitting. She has too much time on her hands!

purpledaisies's picture

Yes she does! she doesn't work and lives of CS but grips that she has no money! :sick: She even grips when she finds out I bought something or whatever! I don't care what she thinks, I work and I have told her that too.

I think she needs to stop trying to chase my man b/c he doesn't want her!

Butterflykissesandlicks's picture

Chiming in...Match.com subscription!

Here is an idea! Have an email account ready that nobody but you can get to and go ahead and sign her up. Just find a pic of the poor ex-wife and copy and paste it to her new profile and have some fun!

You never know! Somebody might even want to be her new benefactor and you could set them up out of the kindness of your heart.

}:) }:) }:) }:) }:) }:) }:) }:) }:) }:)

purpledaisies's picture

Yes that is why I'm so upset with her. There is NO reason she should be calling at that hour for anything! We had the boys and they were in bed. There was no emergency. I have a feeling she wanted to talk to him like a friend knowing I was at work. That is NOT happening!

caregiver1127's picture

I would have had DH text her back a half hour later saying sorry what do you need purple daisies and I were having mind blowing sex when you texted - and I did not realize that you had until about 30 seconds ago when after 2 1/2 hours of going at it - I had completely sweated all fluids from my body so I got up to get a drink to refresh me and will look to see if you text back in the morning as I am going in for round 2 - }:) }:) }:) }:) }:) }:)

purpledaisies's picture

I love it! Caregiver that was awesome! I will talk to dh about something like that. LOL That will stop that sh!t!

caregiver1127's picture

Oh yes it will - and do it everytime but with different variations maybe once you both just got out of the shower and did not hear the phone or you two were re-enacting 9 1/2 weeks in the kitchen after the kids had gone to bed and the phone was off so you two could concentrate on each other or you both were in the garage having sex in the car because it has been so long since you have done it in there and you both wanted to know if it was still as good as you remember or he was so in to giving you that all over body massage that he missed the phone again - this could go on and on but I am sure after the first couple of "sex excuses" she will stop!!

PS - there were a few off of the top of my head but if she continues to harrass I am sure that I can come up with a ton more!!

purpledaisies's picture

Thanks caregiver that is the best idea ever! }:)

I will make sure dh does this. He knows how upset I am over this. He said he shouldn't have told me b/c he doesn't like seeing me this upset. I told him no he needs to tell me b/c we don't need to think there are certain things we should keep from each other.