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Sequel to my previous blog about Karma - I cant stand it anymore, SD10 is being a real little shit at BM house, calls BM slut, mole etc etc, she has sent text to BM saying "i hate you fucken cont" (her spelling) and yet she doesnt behave like that at our house. The problem is this kid has absolutely no boundary's for eg, after sending that text from her phone at our house SD calls BM and says i am out of credit, BM then drives around to our house to give her more !!! :?
BM called SS11's phone about an hour ago and I am still fuming.
I discovered 2 things about Princess this afternoon, and I'm wondering if I should tell her dad... I don't usually keep secrets, but she is 18 now and in college. She does have the right to make her own mistakes and learn from them... And maybe that's just what she needs...
DH just left for the infamous birthday party and no more got pulled out of the driveway til my cell rings. My phone displays the town the number is from and in a few seconds the caller i.d. I answered because I thought it was my MIL; it wasn't. It was SD23 -
Me: Hello
SD23: It's right behind the Dollar Store
Me: You dialed my number, I think you meant to dial your father's. He just left a few minutes ago. I'm not with him.
SD3: Why?
Me: Well, SD23, under the circumstances I didn't feel like I should attend.
SD23: CLICK
So my boyfriend and I have been living together for one year now. He has two daughters..one is 11 the other 13. The 13 year old is the one that is breaking my heart. We have the girls every other weekend and two evenings during the week. Some days she is fine, talkative and friendly. Other days she'll cry and throw fits, has even refused to come since I'm here. She has been destructive dumping my shampoo down the drain, putting wet towels under the covers on my side of the bed and flat out told her dad she wishes I would just go away.
Loghead is always pissy on Sundays. I think it's because there is always so much to do, and then on Sunday, he realizes it isn't done, and then it's time to start a new work week.
My prayers were answered. 2 of the skids WILL be gone for Thanksgiving, and the one staying behind holes up in his room, so I won't see him. Something to be Thankful for!
Granted, this came about as Loca Grande texted me at 1o minutes till 7 this morning. On a Sunday. The woman is crazy. She wanted Lazy Boye to stay for the week. Even though they are having Thanksgiving today, it is her holiday to have them Thursday. If he came home for school she wouldnt have money to come back and get him later in the week, so she wants to keep him.
That when SD13 is asked about her family, she claims to have 4 brothers and 1 sister. Two of the siblings are her SF's kids, her SB15 and SS9. Her SB she sees fairly regularly when she visits BM-maybe once or twice a month, but her SS (both of them have different BMs-he has 3 kids, 3 moms)has an intellectual disability, was never legitimized so SF never has never felt the need to be a part of her life, he almost went to jail for not paying CS, SD13 has only met her 2x, and SS9 has lived in TX (we live in GA) for over a year, and SF just found out about it.
Aw, isn't this sweet??? SD20 posted this as her status tonight on facebook. I was on DH's profile playing a game (I send myself stuff I need... LOL) and she had sent him a random chat message. I did not respond of course so I'm sure she knew I was on there. This popped up a few minutes later. I'm sure just another immature dig at me... which only proves that she hasn't learned a damn thing nor does she care to.
So today marks 1 month that I have been disengaged from my sk's. The first week was hard, but now I have so much peace and I am so much happier. I am looking forward to Thanksgiving and Christmas focused only on my kids... in fact, I'm excited about it! It's been YEARS since I could DO for them and not have to worry about being FAIR.
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