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I'm feeling frustrated today. SS10 overheard a conversation between my boyfriend and his parents. One week later, BM is cussing out BF for "talking about her" and "feeding her sons lies about her". Over the last few months we have had a lot of problems with SS going to BM's and telling her all sorts of stuff and then her blowing up at BF for it. Whether its what movie we watched. What we did. Who we saw. Whatever it doesn't matter.
About 5 minutes after I signed off here last night, sd12 shows up at my front door. She had been over to her brothers house and wanted to stop by and pick up something she had left last weekend. Anyway, guess who she had with her? The ex-step-grandkid. ( i need to abbreviate that 
) Cute kid and all, but still.
This weekend we only have our bd(2) and sd(12). My other two are with their dad. SD was up to her usual antics. She was actually rolling around on the living room floor whining that she wanted to have a sleepover. DH told her no as she didn't behave the last time she had one. She was saying "pleeeease, I want toooo, pleeease dadddy, you're so MEAN, I HATE you!!! Pleeeeease dadddddy, whyyyyyyyy?" over and over again.
It's sort of funny I guess if you don't have to actually witness it.
BD "Why is sd whinning mommy?"
BM has been acting like the bitchwhore she is all week. She's nice to FH for 10 minutes, and suddenly it's all ok. I've been treated like dirt. Skids are here. All they've hollered is, "I miss mommy. I wanna call mommy." They've been here less than 45 minutes. She's brainwashed them. I hate to say this because they're so young, but I want them out of my house. I can't even sit in our bedroom with the door closed without FH coming up and asking me what my problem is. Grr.
Just found out Lazy Boye went to HER house for the weekend. I hope they all remember they are supposed to go to her house for Thanksgiving, and I hope Loghead enforces that... Yes, her cooking could kill them, but it wouldn't hurt to get outta my hair for at least the afternoon... I love every other year when I get Thanksgiving "off." We'll be ordering in pizza again this year...
Well i am rippin mad right now and pretty hurt too, so excuse me while I vent and throw a temper tantrum. God forbid we EVER have plans that would inconvenience BM. The arrangements for the holidays are ALWAYS whatever BM prefers. This year we were planning on having my MIL and skids come over on Christmas eve for a nice dinner and open some gifts, have skids sleepover and have them open up more gifts on Christmas morning. Then around 1:00 or 2:00 DH was going to drop skids off. Well DH just ran this idea by BM and he crumbled like a cookie.
So me and DH were having a nice dinner tonight and watching a show. Tomorrow is the dreaded skid visit at MIL. Every time the new month comes, BM will send DH text saying "leave money with your mother this weekend." Now, DH doesn't need a reminder. He knows when his money is going to her every month, kind of hard to forget...His paycheck varies from week to week so whenever he has the $$$, he leaves it out at MIL's for the appropriate month.
SO and SS16 have not been seeing each other since SS left for the second time in 3 months to go with his mother, last summer. About a month ago SS came over one Sunday night, stayed over, and SO took him home the next day (SO lost his job, and SS was off school).
Last weekend, SO picked up SS around 3:30 Saturday, brought him over, and he stayed until Sunday around 5:00.
Tonight (Friday), SS called SO. I heard SO just say "I'll call you tomorrow."
and if its pretty far, how does your dh/SO/you deal with the distance, emotionally? Is your dh/SO/you sad, wish you lived closer, or are you secretly happy that its far away? Does your dh/SO see them often?
:sick: I kid you not, I was sitting here fuming about how much I hate my fiancee's ex wife... Looking on the internet for ways to calm myself down and tone down the hatred... and I found this site. It is so comforting to know that I am not alone in this neverending battle. The only thing I am struggling with is that everywhere I look all the articles say step down and back, keep your mouth shut, no cents, blah blah blah... I'm sorry I can't do that. She is abusing the children and we have documented evidence of the neglect and physical abuse.
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