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Let me tell you a little about my self I am 27years old I have been married for one year and we been together for four years I have a stepdaughter that’s 18 year old and a step son that 20years old I get along with my stepdaughter but my step son is horrible it has started about a year into dating my husband I just look at him and get annoyed he’s lied so much he’s stole from us he a very dirty person his room you cant even walk in it because its so dirty he just tells you want you want to here he’s lost all his job he can even hold a job down he doesn’t do anything we ask he wakes us up
Less than a week ago BM told DH in not uncertain terms that I was not allowed to be around skids alone because I "talked about her". Skids are out for T'giving break and decided last night that they didn't want to be with their step dad's mom all day. BM calls DH last night around 7p and tells him that the skids want to stay the night, which means that they'll be here ALL DAY with me. Was I ever consulted about it? No. Did I have things to do today? Yes. Is that out the window now? Yes. OK, well, I'll get over that. It's the almost constant whining that's beginning to get on my nerves.
wow, i cant even begin to explain how this happened. my 14 year old got sick and we took her to the hospital, guess who was working there??? yes! her biological mother. we were with the 10 year old also, she is her bio mother also. omg! this cant be happening. she hasnt seen or talked to them since, i dont even remember. and know shes like, oh these are my daughters! arent they beautiful! and talking and rubing them like if she actually had a relashionship with them. the 14 year old was like, i dont care about her, i dont even need to talk to her, so and so.
A low bow...I'm extremely and wonderfully surprised to see that there is a place we horrid stepmothers can actually show our feelings without being considered Evil Aliens Who Eat Children. I'm a new stepmother (I'm also a BM who successfully raised three children to adulthood - at least that's what the three insist). I'm so glad this site exists.
Hello Everyone! I am new to this whole site and I really have to say I am glad there is a place like this. It will be refreshing to get feedback from other people that are step parents, can relate or just have an opinion. I am about to loose my mind so I don't know what else to do.
Okay so here goes....my husband had 3 children and was awarded custody of all of them when they were very young...because there mom stayed in jail and on drugs. 2 boys 7 and 8(who are mine as far as I am concerned) and a daughter 16 who is nothing but pure evil.
Just a question:
Is anybody living in the same house BM and DH shared before you were in the picture? How do you feel about it? I have been living in the same house DH shared with BM for over 5 yrs now~I have made it my own~changed EVERYTHING! He was living in it alone for 4 yrs before I moved in...but sometimes it makes me sick to think she walked the same floors... :sick:
Any veggies here? Any good TG non-meat dishes?
I brought home tastes of vegan loaf and veggie stuffing tonight.
F.
I really need to Vent. This is going to be Long
I can't stand my Mil, seriously, I wish she would just go away. I wish she wouldn't be a part of my life. I just can't stand her. Just knowing that this woman is a part of my life makes me want to puke.
Now before everybody tells me that she was there before me and that she gave birth to the Dh. I already know that, but here is the thing.
1. She has 5 grown children, all boys. 2 out of those do not speak to her and the rest cant stand her.
This is new for me! I am lucky to have a fairly decent relationship with my young SS. However, this does not extend to his poisonous birthmother. What has driven me to rant on StepTalk is her repeated vindictive comments and actions.
DH told me last night that the skids will be at the house tonight for thanksgiving break. DH has the rest of the week off and was going to come up to visit me at work and take me to lunch Wed and Friday since he had stuff to do in the area. he was telling me of his plans and then said " oh and i'll bring the boys up to see you wed for lunch" - my immediate thought WTF - NO i dont 'want to see THEM for lunch...dammit. did DH think i'd be excited to see them?
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