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Submitted by LaMareOssa on Fri, 12/17/2010 - 3:52pm

Dear BM,

Heres another letter for you, you idiot.

I know it must be so fucking hard being you, with the non existant employment, zero responsibility, everyone wiping your ass for you, I know life must be so tiring and difficult. I know how hard it must be for you to arrange to have SOMEONE ELSE take YOUR kids to ballet and tap and soccer that YOU INSIST they go to. I understand you have some community service to complete within 6 months, I know that must be so fucking time consuming. GROW UP, you dirty hampster.

The ex BM , help.

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Submitted by mommabee on Fri, 12/17/2010 - 3:50pm

I have major trust issues with my husband. His BM has always given me problems. He has always denied anything was going on and she would tell me that things were going on. Ive tried to move past this with doubt and sadness in my heart. A few times i left him because of this they would argue on the phone she would come drop off kids unexpectedly she would come by and cuss me out blaming it on me that he doesnt see his kids which is not true. Ive been dealing with this for 4 years. We have a 2 yr old and a 5 month old. I cant seem to move forward with him without knowing the truth.

BM is Such A Big "B"

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Submitted by StepDeux on Fri, 12/17/2010 - 2:29pm

Seriously, that women is such a bitch. EVERY FREAKING TIME it's the weekend to get SD, she pulls some crap. She can never be anywhere on time, can't give directions, and always has something going on. It's never just easy.

So, today she tells SO that he has to get SD from another city (different from the one we work in, and not even the one we live in our she lives in) and says a specific time. She has left SD with people "and they have plans." She KNOWS that SO works, and that SO picks up my DD from school everyday and then picks me up from work.

I don't HAVE TO like her...

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Submitted by tofurkey on Fri, 12/17/2010 - 2:22pm

Taken me long enough to realize this....I don't HAVE TO like DH's daughter anymore than I have to like a total stranger on the street....

I made a comment to DH the other day about skid visit this weekend. I was joking around about how staying home and wrapping would be so much more fun than going out to MIL's. But, he knows that I'm not looking forward to super happy fun time. That's when he said to me "Admit it, you like SD"

Does BM want FH to be a dead beat?

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Submitted by livizzle on Fri, 12/17/2010 - 2:00pm

I’m about to leave to go to skids’ Christmas party at their school. No FH. No BM. It’s just me, and I’ll admit that I’m nervous. BM never tells us about events at skids’ school until they are right smack dab in the middle of it or until afterwards, so we haven’t been able to attend anything this year. BM is buddy-buddy with the parents, and I guess I’m just scared that I’m going to walk in and someone is going to go, “oh, your FH is the deadbeat!” because BM likes to tell everyone about everything. In reality, I know that that will never happen. But still.

Help!

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Submitted by beautifully_broken on Fri, 12/17/2010 - 1:44pm

I'm new to this site and thought I could get some advice. I have two SD ages 8 and 11. Their father and I have been married for 3 years but I've been with them for 7 years. They mainly stay with us and hardly ever go back to their BM. Well heres my dilema...recently I've been going to my parents house more frequently cuz my parents are getting up in age. However my oldest SD is starting to cry for no reason whenever we go to visit. I'm as calm and understanding as I can be but now she's doing it all the time and it forces us to leave because she takes it to extremes.

Im confused...

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Submitted by menav1 on Fri, 12/17/2010 - 10:42am

I have two children from a previous relationship. When i got married to my current husband i knew of his daughter and we would get her every other weekend and he pays child support and provides everything she needs such as clothing, shoes, etc. His ex drives me crazy..she has 4 total children (only one belong to my husband) and he is the only father involved in her children's lives. Her other baby's fathers are either unknown or not supportive at all. Her last child came after her and my husband seperated, she is now 4 months old.

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