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So last night my H and I were up until 2:00 arguing about the skids and Christmas. Oh happy day! He thinks that I'm mean to his kids and make them feel uncomfortable. I said well what would you like me to do to make them feel better around me. I wasn't trying to be smart. I didn't even say it with a tone in my voice. He came back with well you should know how to act you are in customer service after all! I was serious I don't know what to do. I have tried everything.
Grown nearly 26 y.o. SD "can't" work because she's so busy raising her 3 kids under 6 years of age. Busy, busy, busy...so busy that she apparently spends a good majority of the day on the PC posting on FB, every little moment of her life.
I swear, I've never, ever run into such an entitled spoiled person who does NOT come from money (not by a long shot). Just recently she called daddy to the rescue again, asking for money (which I just found out was for food...supposedly). (See my last blog for details on that whole thing.)
OK someone please tell me what to do. My SD16, has twice, in the past, snuck out of the house. The last time she went thru her bedroom window and left in a car around 1am. Her dad grounded her for 1 month. I know thats not long enough but what can I do. So Now this morning she texted my daughter and asked her when her and my mother would be home (they went to a dr appt) so she could make sure she was home before they got back. Then to find out she had a guy sleep in her bedroom last night and went out with him this morning. The husband doesn't want to believe it.
I'm on the verge of leaving DH and returning to England (from Canada). I don't want to leave DH or the dogs, but can't stand living with SD on an ongoing basis. Whilst she's a good kid compared to most, living with DH and SD is proving too much of a challenge for me. When she's not there, DH and I get on brilliantly, when she is there we don't. Lots of reasons, no one particularly at fault - just lots of little things that now amount to one big thing for me.
Hey there Stepers! It’s been a stretch since I peeked in on every body (I got a minor promotion at work that has put a MAJOR cramp in my interweb viewing time!) but I do still follow everyone’s adventures and am always sending my thoughts and strength to you all! *hugs*
ok so i'm sorry i'm sooooo aggrivated at my dh's ex wife. she's always been such a control freak and has sole custody of the girls (long story) well, he's had less than standard visitation because at first the girls were mad at him and that's all they wanted. Eventually their anger lessened and said and had asked mom for more time with dad, but she wouldn't ever allow it because she "wasn't required to".
I found out that my still H is getting back togheter with BM, I just can't believe it, it makes me feel used and angry...and still heartbroken...how is this even possible?? I thought they hated each other, I guess he lied to me all this time...so now the whole idea of my child going to that Wh@r3's house makes me sick! no way!!
Another slap in the face by SD9, our Christmas holiday started Dec17 and ends Dec26. Well last time we had the girls the youngest 6 said she didnt want to come down anymore, my DH rule is I will never make you come to my house I would love for you to so I can see you girls but I am never going to make you. So we knew that we where only getting one girl for that time, sucked but we will deal with it I would rather her stay home with BM then come here a cause problems.
I am still wrapping. I like to take my time and do one at a time through out the season. I hate to have a pile on christmas eve and stay up way too late. This way I do the stockings only on the eve and everything else is done except to put out santa gifts. I also do the ribbon bows, I love to wrap and make them look very pretty. I reuse everything from year to year and as it wears out I replace. And I make my bows different then most people, I make a bow and keep tieing till I get as many loops as I want and it is pretty.
So what does everyone else do?
AS I said before all three boys have their own cell phones.
Yesterday we were on our way to a birthday party with all the kids. BM texted dh to have ss11 call her. Dh told ss11 he needs to call his mom and asked why she didn't call him herself. SS11 said he has his phone turned off. Dh asked why and the other boys said they turn theirs off too as they got tired of her calling and texting all the time. I asked how long had they been doing that. They said for a few months.
I was wondering why their phones were so quite lately. LOL I just think it is too funny.
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