I'm new to this site and thought I could get some advice. I have two SD ages 8 and 11. Their father and I have been married for 3 years but I've been with them for 7 years. They mainly stay with us and hardly ever go back to their BM. Well heres my dilema...recently I've been going to my parents house more frequently cuz my parents are getting up in age. However my oldest SD is starting to cry for no reason whenever we go to visit. I'm as calm and understanding as I can be but now she's doing it all the time and it forces us to leave because she takes it to extremes.