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please help me i am losing my husband..i told him i dont want to live with his daughter anymore and he is leaving me with her..i love my husband i just dont want her to live with me anymore..i cant take no more shit and he refuses to disipline her..i am so sick of this shit..
At least I don't feel crazy and alone anymore. I grew up in a step family and work in foster care. I am a realist when it comes to step-families and expectations, or so I thought. My SS, or son to be SS, is 16 and the most pathetic whiney unmotivated child I know. He is capable of making straight A's in school and has proven this through various assessment tests, yet continuously brings home C's and D's. He has no ambition, no goals, no motivation. He is anti-social...never comes out of his room. He stays in his room playing computrr games until the wee hours of the morning.
So my skids are going to thier bm's this weekend. they both went to the school nurse and she reported that my sd no longer had head lice and I was soooo happy to hear that. Now, I am still going thru her hair twice a day just to be on the safe side and she has one more treatment I am going to do tom night. But then she has to go to her bm's and I want to make sure her bm will also do what needs to be done. What I am really nervouse about is what if she comes back with them again? What if she did get them her bm's house? I wonder if my husband will really do something about it.
Hmm something is going on. Not too sure as to what, but DH is being polite. We actually had a conversation today. Not about anything with substance (taxes) but it had more words in it than we have spoken to eachother in the last 2 weeks combined.
He still cooked dinner for HIS children (and me) but this time I actually helped do dishes. Normally I don't because I don't eat with him and the skids. I ate the dinner, so I will help with the clean up.
Ok, so we have policy to basically avoid each other at all costs. So why the heck is BM tagging people in my pictures on facebook? Facebook asks me if I want to allow her to tag my photos. :sick:
Why is she even looking at my pics, self torture?
So i know that I probably shouldn't have. It may come back to bite me in the butt. But I have had enough of her carziness. So here's the story.
SO took the middle daughter to her Religion Class tonight (how ironic...to bad it's not doing her any good.) She had a "talk" with her about my feelings and all her lying. She said she will change "once again." She honestly doesn't give a crap and when SO was telling me what she said about lies I just rolled my eyes because is was a lie to cover up another lie. Of course he is upset with me. At this point I don't care if I ever see his kids again. I bend over backwards for not only SO, but his kids and even their BM.
We've known for quite some time that BM was going to abandon the kids ONCE AGAIN, but she has never confirmed when she was leaving. FH found out this evening from the kids that she told them this past weekend she was moving hundreds of miles and 8 hours away......THIS UPCOMING WEEKEND. Not only did she not tell FH that she was moving this weekend, but this weekend is her scheduled weekend with the kids and he has to work. She hasn't said one word to him.
Wow I really am needing to vent today....
only four months. She graduates in 4 months. Then military! Woohoo! They (dh & sd) know that there is no way she could stay here past graduation (if she makes it that far). So it looks like they are looking at military as her best option. It will give her training and the money she would need for college. Plus it may do her some good. If she can stick it out.
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