I'm not really sure how I feel about this.

On the one hand, it makes logical sense. We are very unlikely to see FSS any time soon. His BM won't follow the CO and FDH's already realised he will have to (and is preparing to) take her to court for violating the custody agreement. As it stands right now, though, FSS probably won't be here this summer. I'm glad to have a nursery for the baby; she was going to be sharing a room with DD9 almost 10, but now each of them will have their own room, so this works out better for all of us who are living here full time.

At 27 I divorced my first husband. It was not my decision, but I took it as a new beginning and I made sure to work my behind off to be somebody. I vowed to never depend on a man before that or after. I worked 12hr days, saved money, paid everything on time, had perfect credit, etc...even though my ex tried to steal from me, I was proactive and protected myself.

BM of SD14 informed us last night at her middle school graduation (!) that SD14 has a new bf. He is 17. She met him through a friend at a trailer park. She now spends all of her free time when she is not with us at said trailer park. We knew this but she was telling us that she had friends (female) that lived there. Once alone DH asked her when she was going to introduce him to her bf. She did the :jawdrop: face and said "How do you know, did my mom tell you?" He said no, I just know everything. Now DH wants to start doing random trailer park drive thru's.

Well, I left my FDH.
To be honest, it was fairly peaceful. I guess both of us were lacking in motivation to keep it going. So here am, stuff in my car, on my friends couch, trying to plan the next step of my life.

I'm only 24, I have a long life ahead of me and I know I'll find someone else.
FDH was the one man that I gave up everything for, and now I have to take it all back.

On the bright side, goooooooodbye BM!

Any encouraging words would be helpful as heartache is never any fun.