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Submitted by etyler on Sat, 06/11/2011 - 8:16am

Well, I left my FDH.
To be honest, it was fairly peaceful. I guess both of us were lacking in motivation to keep it going. So here am, stuff in my car, on my friends couch, trying to plan the next step of my life.

I'm only 24, I have a long life ahead of me and I know I'll find someone else.
FDH was the one man that I gave up everything for, and now I have to take it all back.

On the bright side, goooooooodbye BM!

Any encouraging words would be helpful as heartache is never any fun.

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Submitted by briarmommy on Sat, 06/11/2011 - 8:40am

You are young and free and now you can do anything you set your mind to, you got rid of that anchor around your ankle. I am so proud and happy for you. I hope your new life is everything you want it to be.

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Submitted by Sarahjc on Sat, 06/11/2011 - 12:47pm

I was married and divorced by the time I was 23. I was a month away from graduating college, when my ex told me that he didn't want to be married anymore and wanted to see what else was out there. I was devestated and thought that I would never find someone again. It ended up being the best thing that could have happened to me. I took a government job and moved 120 miles away. I started over and found out who I was and was able to learn that I should not settle because I am worth more than that.

Take time to yourself, have fun, and don't settle! Good luck to you!