Ok BM was supposed to call us PRIOR to 9 am YESTERDAY if she was going to take visitation. Well she called DH today at 455 saying she had tried to call and couldn't get through and we couldn't prove otherwise" uh really? Bullshit! I called the phone company and they have NO incoming calls from here except for the one at 455 today. This woman STILL has not provided us with a current phone or address and is still pushing for visitation tomorrow morning (mind you she hasn't seen the kids since thanksgiving of last year, and no phone calls) our atty AGREED to let her see the kids!!!! WTF?

I wanted to take dh's and our kids to chuck-e-cheese... when lo and behold DH asks me if we could wait until skids could come.

I told him no, that we are going now with OUR kids. Tomorrow we will be going to the pumpkin patch for a fun day of hayrides and picking pumpkins. NO - we again will not be waiting for skids.

I dont care to entertain or spend any money on skids. We spend enough in support.

I just cant believe he thought that I was going to be okay with taking bratty skids anywhere! Does anyone else s DH's ever try to pull that crap?

Why is it that people can't believe children (step-children) can be very manipulative and conniving, especially if the BM is this way? My SO always says "oh she's not that smart or that evil to something like that". He needs to find out want the humans hierarchy of needs are in a normal, well adjusted human, he might be surprised!

There have been issues lately with BM not telling BF things and BM flipping out because BF didn't tell her things. So I am just curious, what does BF have to tell BM. I know there is a RO in the divorce barring her from 'interfering in his personal liberties' and I am guessing that I fall under a personal liberty. BM is a major control freak so she wants to be in on everything.