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Well it was about TIME!!! The rose color glasses DH has been wearing when he see's SD are finally breaking. She seems to always turn into a "perfect" little angle when daddy is around, so when I tell him about her attitude, the one that looked stupid was ME.
So what happened you ask??... great question, glad you asked!!!
My husband was at a meeting during BM's court allowed phone call time. He texted her that he was in a meeting and could call my phone to talk to SS. She used to refuse to call me, because her petty jealousy for me trumped her desire to speak to "her" son. The past 2 times he has been unavailable during her phone calls she has actually called me. Last time she called I just handed the phone to SS. This time, I answered and she was so disgustingly fake and phony "Hey [my name] it's [her aggravating name]! Is [SS] around?" Ugh!
Would she let them come over?
Mine does know that I dont like her kids. And yet she wants her kids to come over here more.
If I knew that some chic didnt like my kids, there is no way that I would subject them to forced visitation.
And its not like their father is spending any quality time with them. He literally sleeps at least half the time they are here.
Ugh.. hopefully as they get older they will want to stop coming here.
My DH now knows what it feels like to be treated like poop and he doesn't think it feels so good.
The "surprise" party for my SD is tonight - family (Her mother/Sdad and sister) will be here in town from out of state. Ex wife called DH yesterday and said "you are not invited, it is my surprise, I traveled all this way and I don't you, your wife or her kid (adult kid) there either". He was mad and hurt.
I am trying to get some research on family law and child custody. My boyfriend is in a custody battle right now with bm of his 4y/o ds. Originally the agreement stated that bm had sole custody and bf had visitation every fri sat. The last time we saw his ds was on july 4th. We went back to court, filled an emergency modification of custody order and obtained temp custody of ds pending a court date later this month.
I got this from another blog and it made me think….
Do you think your DH would be a better/different parent to his skids, if he and the ex would have stayed together? Do you think BM would have been a better/different parent had they stayed together?
I do. DH had all if the great parent ideas. But he just would not/could not stick to them on those 4 days a month. I am also not sure I would have been any different if I saw my kids for 4 days a month.
I really think 50/50 should be the norm. And NO child support.
I don't know why I let this woman get to me. She is so predictible in her inability to parent without input from BF. She was so dependent on him for everything financially as in he went to work and brought home the paycheck while she did nothing. She also ruled the roost as far as any decision making. So now she is acting like she never made a decision without his input. He never had any input while they were married and if he voiced his opinion he was shot down. As long as he brought home a paycheck that is all she was worried about.
I'm having a problem with my wife over our boys. My stepson is in college part time and has a part time job and is 22 yrs old and does not pay any rent. He does how ever pay is car insurance and cell phone and his health insurance. My son is 24 has a decent job pays health insurance and car insurance and give me $200.00 a motnh for rent. Here is the problem I have, we have a problem meeting our financial obligations my wife and I both work also I make a decent wage and my wife makes a so-so wage,every thing has gone up utilities,gas and food etc..
Well I figured that I would write down how I got to where I am today. (Yes I get very bored at work)
Why am I not surprised..she did this a few years ago too. Anyway she no longer need the cage and so she isn't coming even though dh's dad said she was already planning on coming to see weather she needed the cage or not. I knew the only reason she was coming was to borrow the cage and she didn't care about seeing us or anything. Her excuse is she doesn't have the money and she wants to come with fil so she will wait. However the same thing happened a few years ago they were supposed to come see us but made up an excuse.