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Submitted by PrincessFiona on Mon, 06/28/2010 - 12:33pm

DH's oldest, SD19, has been estranged from him for many years. She is a perfect example of PAS, was alienated by both her mom and her SM. She quit speaking to her father entirely when he and his 2nd wife (her SM, BM2) divorced. I am not her problem as this was already the situation I entered into, just guilty by association. I know here are always two side to every story and somewhere in the middle is the truth but I have yet to hear anything even from her that warrants her feelings toward him.

Skids ignore me and the house is like Neverland!

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Submitted by hope4better on Mon, 06/28/2010 - 12:20pm

It's been a few week since SD9 and SS8 came to our house for summer visitation. They never ever talk to me! When I said "good morning!", SS8 remians silent... When I ask SD9 or SS8 "are you guys hungry?" There is a pose, then they look around and, "where is Dad?". And they go to find thier dad (my DH) and ask what is dinner. So only words they talk to me is "where is dad?". I think it is very rude!

I just wanna spit.

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Submitted by Willow2010 on Mon, 06/28/2010 - 11:29am

I am so angry at DH right now. Why is he such a bad father?

SS 17 met a girl at camp 5 days ago. It ends up that she lives in our town and she is almost 16 years old. SS got back 2 days ago and the first night he was home he went to her house and came home at 1:00AM. Supposed to be 12 but not my kid so I don’t care what time he gets in.

5yr old neighbor & BM obviously wrecking his brain...what to do?

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Submitted by herewegoagain on Mon, 06/28/2010 - 8:34am

There is a little 5yr old kid who is our neighbor...he lives w/dad and dad's parents...BM has visitation...He comes to play w/our kiddo alot and even eats dinner w/us sometimes. We know his grandparents and they are very sweet people and respectable...here's what happened...

The other day my kiddo and him were eating at the table and being silly. Just saying spongebob lines and laughing...all of a sudden little boy says "kiddo (my son) likes to sleep with women!" WTH? I almost had a heart attack! He is 5!!! He had just returned from visitation whis BM...

Be careful what you wish for.. you might just get it!

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Submitted by frustratedinMA on Mon, 06/28/2010 - 8:24am

So, after all my being upset on Saturday morning about not getting a break and needing my dh to come home and help.. well.. I got my wish..

So, he got home in the late afternoon on Saturday, tells me great news.. I have tomorrow off! I was estatic. Finally, I can have some help, I can probably even sleep late!!

BM buys Hollister for other kid, but no money for skid?

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Submitted by herewegoagain on Mon, 06/28/2010 - 8:19am

I find it funny truant calls DH a loset because "her mom has 2 other kids to support and DH won't send her extra money and she NEEDS school clothes", yet skid's sister got tickets to see Justin Bieber just a couple of months ago, now her sister writes on myspace "my mom got me a bunch of Hollister shirts-mood spoiled"...meanwhile in the last 6mos i have only bought 3usd tank topa for myself at walmart and the same for our son! All of BMs kids have cell phones, dress in brand ñame clothes, the girls get their hair dyed and cut professionally and DH is a loser?

Weekend with SD21

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Submitted by stepoff on Mon, 06/28/2010 - 7:47am

DH came home from work Friday and after some arguing back and forth, he insisted on taking our 2yo to an out of state graduation party for his niece. I joined with our 3 mo. old.

We drove all night and arrived at 4 a.m. We were exhausted.

The next morning, DH got a call from SD saying that she needed somewhere to go until the party began (party started at 4 p.m.). None of DH's relatives were home, so she came to DH's parents' house, where we were staying.

After custody change of SS and him moving in this month BM has made a b.s. police report and called Child Protective Services!!

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Submitted by mrsparks on Mon, 06/28/2010 - 6:59am

A cop rolled up to the house on Friday asking to see SS and to make sure he was clean/fed/looked ok and if there was food in our fridge!
WHAT?! He said he was called by CPS to come and check on the child.
We know it was BM because we have had welfare checks done on her in the past, but only after her keeping SS from DH for weeks and one time, months at a time.

How can we stop this insanity!

The cop knew what kind of situation it was once we showed him the court order/guardian report, but just told us to "be careful" and that the truth will always prevail.

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