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I have often wondered why SM's are required to care for the SC in every way that we care for our own children but we have no rights. I also wonder why no one else has a right to harass us but the law does nothing when the BM does so. I wonder, as well, what gives BM's the right to make our life and the life of the children a living hell with no worries that our justice system is going to put a stop to it.
BF has been so strong through all this, and finally the other night he broke down. It came after several hours of snappy remarks, arguments, and even him talking about leaving. Finally he realized the reason why he was so upset and that he was taking it out on me because he felt like I was all he had.
Hi everyone, have some pretty strange news to share, not sure if this has ever happened to anyone before, but it's so bizzare , I have to share.....OK, My husbands ex has done everything she can to make my life hell.....now she wants to steal it. She has stolen my identity, and is using it in a sick way to "get me". Now their are some similarities in us, and that is a huge downfall, the biggest one is our names, mine is Michelle(Meshel) & hers is Shelley.....that often gets mistaken and is a pain in the @*!
Well, I remember someone posting about it. The stepmom plague. I guess I got it last night for the first time at SD6's soccer game and let me tell you it feels like shit. I have 2 SDs (now 6 & 10) and 1 Bio-Daughter(14). Been together w/ DH close to 2 years and have full custody of all of them. I'm one that has the PSYCHO ex-wife to deal with. Haven't posted much about her but the ex is a nutcase. I just don't deal with her...he does.
With all this abuse talk, BF blurtted out that SD14 was sexually molested when she was six by DK's Brother.
Bf has told me that Dk was molested as a kid by her Brothers. She was raped at knife point at 16, and that DK said all 3 extra marital affairs were rape. I never gave much thought.
From what BF said, the adults dealt with it. DK's Father beat the living balls out of his own son when he found out he hurt his GrandDaughter. And that was it. They never addressed it to the girl. They just brushed it under the rug.
I can't stop crying. This makes so much sence.
This Saturday: A poker party at the ex's house. I get to spend the evening with all of - and only - the ex's family.
The kids want us there, not a good enough reason for me. It's not a stressful situation, the kids just want their dad & me there because it'll be fun to have us there. They need to realize that we can't be there whenever they want.
So Mic actually got a hold of SS on 2nd or 3rd try this afternoon. He and Ms. Perfect were on their way to Toys R Us to get a birthday present. Turns out the party is for his friend's little sister, who apparently loves carebears, and what else could it be, but a sleepover. I think this kid has gone about 2 nights without a sleepover since Easter Break started. I mean, I understand that at 8, friends become more important, learning to socialize, yada, yada, yada, but this is ridiculous. Ms. P.
Ok, here's a first. Tonight, BF went to see SD for their weekly Daddy/Daughter dinner and BM made what we suspect to be an attempt at coparenting. We think. She's never done anything like this before so we're suspicious. I guess it's a step in the right direction anyway - maybe family based therapy is working? I have found that every step forward like this is followed very quickly by several steps back, though. We'll see!
My boyfriend is discussing with his ex-wife about having a graduation party together for their son. I am new to the family -- all of his extended family seem to really like me (said love me). We've been together just about a year. My boyfriend and his ex don't get along very well. Well, they get along as long as she always gets her way. Otherwise she screams at him and treats him terribly. I suggested we have separate graduation party's ... one with my boyfriend's family and sons, and his ex can have her own.
Can anyone answer why a parent would sell out their own blood?
I mean come on really your own son?
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