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so im a big fat hypocrite. i opened my mouth at tball because the team mom and i hit it off and she mentioned the end of year party, before i could even stop myself i had offered our home since we have a pool. then i realized it was bm's weekend....i didnt want to say oh wait i need to check that bm wont be a crazy beotch and not allow ss to come so i had dh ask bm about it.
Apparently I missed something somewhere in the last 24 hours...Lots of negativity filled blogs! I know I know I'll be the first one to be negative lately but! ever since we found out about the house things have been terrific between DH and I! I have completely 'disengaged' (ignored) BM for the last few days and I feel a lot better about myself since seperating from her bad vibes and highschool behavior. I haven't seen SD for about 2 weeks now, which has also made me feel better and given me time to think of how I want to approach some of her behavior.
and I can't wait to start reading it. I really hope it helps me to make sure I'm not being an idiot with most of our dealings with BM. However, I do see her side of things very easily, I just don't necessarily agree with them.
For example...last night BM asks us if we can take the kids for a few hours. Sure! We love taking the kids. My fiance told her we might as well just keep the kids overnight if they are going to be at our house until 7:30/8 anyways. BM agrees and says "Thanx!" (Sorry...just can't stand the x's and lol's and kewl's)
The good news...I found out yesterday that I got the term job I applied for! It sucks thinking about being off maternity leave and not being with my baby girl all day, but at least it's for a good job with awesome pay and it is super close to home.
hey all id like some info on PAS.does anyone have a web address that could be helpful?
I had such a wonderful weekend 'cause the step kids were with their mom. It's so messed up because of the little brat, this weekend was the first time EVER that I got to slow dance with my husband.
it was so wonderful and now they are back and things are back to normal. everything being annoying. the brat crying and screaming for everything. I wish that I could make him see how it really is.
how bratty she is, what an attention whore she is. he says he sees it but he does nothing about it.
stressed knowing that in about 2 hours ss12 will be back home, I had such a wonderful weekend just hanging out with my children , no fighting, they were helpful, no backtalking, no hateful comments, no shit disturbing, just a really nice peacefull weekend, now it's over!
why should I have to live with 5 days of hell just to get 2 days of peace, everyother weekend, on the other weekend it is worse than hell with both ss's here.
I just hope it gets better, another 6 years of this, I don't know if I can take it!!
So I am new to this site and thought i would say hello and tell everyone my situation. I have a stepson who is 7. We have a wonderful relationship. I love him to pieces, he means the world to me. We are very close and i have never looked at him like a "stepson". My husband and i have had a rough road but finally seem to be figuring it all out and are doing great. The BM is a complete bitch and psycho. to be blunt! We live in MA and it is very hard to get custody from a mother when the 2 were not married and we have sunk close to $10,000.00 into it and have had to stop.
We all say it...typically right before we say something offensive. Why is it that we think that just because we say "no-offense" we can then proceed to say ANYTHING we want and the person HEARING the aforementioned offensive remark has no right to be angry. I mean after all, we said no offense right?
I find myself living two lives.....one happy with hubby alone and at peace and the other one stressful and feeling unhappy when the ss13 comes over.......he makes the days he is here very streeful and nasty by creating lots of drama, bad behavior and gets his dad be in a bad mood.......I hate seeing the mess he makes and he doesn't pick up after himself and makes us repeat things over and over and he still does what he wants....its all about him......and only about him.......so I know have happy days when he is not here and happy days when he is not.....Does this happend to you too?