I know they are mentally ill, but I still can't wrap my head around the fact that their hate for DH & I is so much greater than their love for SD18. I posted last wk about NONE of them even coming to her graduation, or even acknowledging it. I had her party Saturday, and not ONE of them even acknowledged that either. I would've expected at least she get a phone call or card, or something, but NOTHING from them....

So, almost on a weekly basis, sometimes more The BM decides she is going to call my hubby with a complaint about me. Its never anything true, normal, accurate. It is soooo frustrating and annoying. My husband handles it well. Tries to ignore it as much as possible but it infuriates me in the worst way. They are things like- I took too many pictures of her son at an event. I stood too close to her at an event. I shouldn't be at an event. "Its only for my SS parents" she will even complain to my hub about my family being involved in my SS life. There are so many more examples.

I am so annoyed and frustrated with my youngest stepdaughter. I've posted a few times that when ever she is in one of her brat/bitch modes she finds any way to ruin everyone's day. I was getting ready to leave for work this morning, and I could already tell by her behavior that she was in one of her moods. As I was trying to leave, I asked if she could step aside so I could use the mirror, because I had to go to work.

DH and I were at my bio-daughters softball game last night. As we were getting ready to leave her SM came up to me and asked if we could talk. I agreed and we went for a short walk. She told me that she thinks its best if we try to be friends so that we can share information about my daughter. The kicker is that she asked me not to tell my daughter that we are friends.