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The BM might get her wish, I am ready to walk away from SS and BF! BM writes this long email saying how SS hates me and then tells stories of stuff that has happened at our house that SS has told her, with complete exaggeration of course! Apparently SS is going back to BM's after our time with him and tells her all sorts of stuff that happened...never the good things of course and BM twists around what she hears and puts a negative spin on everything! I am so sick of it! Almost 4 years of dealing with her and her BS!!!!
Last night I was so angry at DH. He who after we had dinner in town with MIL to which he didn't say much to me all dinner like usual, thankfully I had MIL to talk to, comes home immediately goes on the computer the 3 older kids go play and the baby plays nearby me in the living room. Then he switch to going over and playing a damn video game he's been obsessing over. so i go on the computer he's constantly calling me in to the room to help with a kid or something wouldn't get off his ass. so then when i go up to finish the laundry every 5 minutes hes calling me still for something.
Hi. I have just found this site, and I'm afraid maybe even a little TOO LATE. My 16 year old son and I moved in with my fiance and his 17 and 16 year old daughters. I am widowed, my son is very solemn and usually respectful. He stays to himself for the most part. My SD's are.... NOT. They are very angry, and God knows what else, at their Mother who left their father after a long affair with Daddy's best friend. THe girls don't see much of their Mom, the older girl refuses to have anything to do with her.
So my bf is finally coming home today after 3 weeks of being gone out of town working..I couldnt be happier! And just to clarify things, me and my 12 yr old son live at his house, and I do love being a house mouse and taking care of my bf when he is in town, I make sure he doesnt have to lift a finger while hes at home. On the downside, I found out last night that Miss Bitch and her bf are coming into town for the weekend. (The SD) She called her dad last night and they talked on the phone while we were on the webcam. So I got to hear one end of the conversation.
http://batteredmomslosecustody.wordpress.com/200his9/01/01/cook-county-i...
Had to share this. I'm sure most of you are familiar with this but I was not. I also refer to the references to Parental Alienation Fraud.
Very interesting. Why do these BM's resort to this? Abuse is abuse but every divorcing husband cannot be an independently wealthy abuser who has left a poverty stricken, terrified BM.
So I am apparently not allowed to display strong negative emotions in my SO's presents. :jawdrop:
Sorry this is long...most of my blogs seem to be these days. 
So Just had surgery on the 14th of this month.
I was on stumpleupon (best procrastination site ever!) and stumbled onto a photography site with some random quotes and I found one that made me think about being a SM.
"Just because it's not what you were expecting, doesn't mean it's not everything you've been waiting for."
well finally saw and actually talked to H tonight after not really seeing him for 3 days because of both our school schedule and work schedule. Didnt end well OF COURSE never does when we see each other. We had a semi good day on Saturday when we had sd, but that was the only good day in a while.
So, DH has an aunt who I "used" to be very close to...and her family... She is like a mother to him becasue his mother lives out of the country...so she has been there over the last 16 yrs living minutes away from us. Anyway, the reason I do not speak to the family anymore is because over the last year or so, his aunt has had BM over for dinner, company, etc etc.... BM has put my DH thru sooo much BS over the years and the aunt has been a shoulder to cry on for DH....she was there for him thru it all, even accompanying him to court several times.
My guy of 7 years is headed on a "all guys" snowmobile trip next weekend. I suppose I would be expected to stay with the SD (10 years old) - like I have so many times in the past. Which I have gotten resentful of. But I am no longer making myself a convenient sitter. I am making plans to go with a couple of my gal friends for that weekend. I told him I would not be around that week-end either. Shocking! I will not be home to watch the SD. Ahhh, how nice it is to be just the Step Mom - and say guess YOU will have to find a sitter!
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